Hello, i'm a 18 year old female ISTP and I've been obsessed with a male ENFP for about 4 years now. I stopped talking to him 2 years ago. I was wondering if any other ISTP had this problem? He is the only person I cling to. I have really bad attachment issues with him, because I went through a schizophrenic episode with him. where i heard his voice inside my head and fell in love with my version of him. and no matter what i do, i think about him at least one time every few hours. and I just want it to stop, but I don't know how. I'm almost scared to let him go, because I'm so used to thinking about him all the time. just help! someone tell me how an ISTP gets over an ENFP! he's the only male ENFP i've been friends with. and oh, were we perfect. but my schizophrenia tore us apart. i just want to stop thinking about him. i don't know if anyone can help me. but i'm so scared, like if you've heard the quote "it takes one minute to like someone, an hour to love someone, and a lifetime to forget someone." I really hope that doesn't apply to me! GET HIM OUT OF ME!