well sort of depressing. I am happy being wrapped up in my own pursuits and I am very busy with school, but it seems like everyone else is dating or in a relationship and I never am. Im 20 and Ive been single for ages. It doesnt usually bother me but lately Ive gotten a lot of attention and Idk I don't like it, I mean I do but it makes me sad because I cant be with any of them, also there are so few who appeal to me, but when they do appeal to me I want them more than I should. there have only been 2 in my life who I have ever wanted to be with. the first was in 7th grade and the second was last year. he was on my organismal biology lab, really smart, but shy, I think most of that was lust, he obviously worked out, biceps are my weakness, long story short I couldn't say anything to him, he never said anything to me but I knew he at least was attracted to me, or I think he was I mean he would stare at me all through lecture Id catch him at it everyday, and then he'd just look away, and when we were lab partners hed look at my face while I wrote etc. the point is I'm ok looking I keep fit and Im friendly when approached, so does me being INFJ keep others at bay, or is it me? It would be nice to not always be alone, do you guys feel this way? or do you go through this too?