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How can you accidently not be aware you are in her presence? You're aware that it's an accident and that she was there. How is that accidental, exactly? You sound like you are playing emotional games with her. You can call it detachment - you're actually not detached, this is not the definition of detachment what you've described. You sound awfully aware to me. You're playing with her emotions because you probably have no idea how you feel. Be a big boy/girl, be honest and direct and tell her what is really going on. If that is not apart of your plan, tell her to move on, and find someone else that is willing to give her the attention she wants.
 

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I guess there is some truth to this sadly... What should I tell her is going on?
Whatever is going on, let her know. If you are confused - tell her. If you don't want to proceed - tell her. If you think she should move on - tell her. I don't know how you feel. Your feelings are your own. I cannot and have no authority to tell you what you feel. But this game you are playing serves no purpose. No one is winning.
 

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You are right, it's very hard to do this when I don't know where she stands though. Once I dive into my feelings there's no easy going back...
The truth will set you free.
 
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