I had an argument with a former 'friend'. She's very perceptive when it comes to people [INFJ], and she made an astounding revelation about me. Its sad, but true. As a summary, I'm at the centre of my own universe. I crave the attention and sense of importance people give me, and in turn I complain about them just to boost my ego. I'm essentially a selfish creature, and I can't remember a time in my life where I wasn't self-absorbed. The only thing that matters to me is improving myself and being significant. Empathy is like on a different frequency to me. I'm not depressed, and I 100% do not have a low self esteem. Its just I feel that this person has nailed my life. In a way I'm upset because it makes me feel pathetic, but I really don't want things to change. Right now I'm facing an internal conflict. Someone give some advice, a diagnosis, a lecture... I just need words.