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I went to the bar, got drunk as fuck, cried on my friends' shoulder for a while. I'm home now. I still want to cry. I don't know why it hurts so much. I didn't even know her that long.

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you gotta drink till you throw up so the physical pain matches the emotional....
 

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You can do better then her 馃檪馃

 

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not to be dismissive but i cant listen to this kind of music. whats the emotional message you were trying to send?
Have you listened to the lyrics? It helped me when I felt down, and I hoped it could help him too. These are songs of hope 馃檪
 

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Have you listened to the lyrics? It helped me when I felt down, and I hoped it could help him too. These are songs of hope 馃檪
Have you listened to the lyrics? It helped me when I felt down, and I hoped it could help him too. These are songs of hope 馃檪
I. CANT. LISTEN. TO. THIS. TYPE. OF. MUSIC.

my brain automatically switches off and i cant physically do it. you might listen to this and enjoy it but it is like torture to my ears.

thats why i asked you to just say what the message of the song is
 

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I. CANT. LISTEN. TO. THIS. TYPE. OF. MUSIC.

my brain automatically switches off and i cant physically do it. you might listen to this and enjoy it but it is like torture to my ears.

thats why i asked you to just say what the message of the song is
Ok. Its not about the music, its about the comfort in the lyrics.
 

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Bridge over troubled water

When you're weary
Feeling small
When tears are in your eyes
I will dry them all
I'm on your side
When times get rough
And friends just can't be found

[Chorus]
Like a bridge over troubled water
I will lay me down
Like a bridge over troubled water
I will lay me down

[Verse 2]
When you're down and out
When you're on the street
When evening falls so hard
I will comfort you
I'll take your part
When darkness comes
And pain is all around

[Chorus]
Like a bridge over troubled water
I will lay me down
Like a bridge over troubled water
I will lay me down
 

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"I Will Survive"


At first, I was afraid, I was petrified
Kept thinking I could never live without you by my side
But then I spent so many nights thinking how you did me wrong
And I grew strong, and I learned how to get along

And so you're back from outer space
I just walked in to find you here with that sad look upon your face
I should have changed that stupid lock
I should have made you leave your key
If I'd have known for just one second you'd be back to bother me

Go on now, go. Walk out the door
Just turn around now 'cause you're not welcome anymore
Weren't you the one who tried to hurt me with goodbye?
Did you think I'd crumble?
Did you think I'd lay down and die?

Oh, no, not I
I will survive
Oh, as long as I know how to love I know I'll stay alive
I've got all my life to live
I've got all my love to give
And I'll survive
I will survive, hey, hey

It took all the strength I had not to fall apart
Kept trying hard to mend the pieces of my broken heart
And I spent, oh, so many nights just feeling sorry for myself
I used to cry, but now I hold my head up high

And you see me somebody new
I'm not that chained-up little person still in love with you
And so you felt like dropping in
And just expect me to be free
And now I'm saving all my loving for someone who's loving me

Go on now, go. Walk out the door
Just turn around now 'cause you're not welcome anymore
Weren't you the one who tried to break me with goodbye?
Did you think I'd crumble?
Did you think I'd lay down and die?
Oh, no, not I
I will survive
Oh, as long as I know how to love I know I'll stay alive
I've got all my life to live
I've got all my love to give
And I'll survive
I will survive

Go on now, go. Walk out the door
Just turn around now 'cause you're not welcome anymore
Weren't you the one who tried to break me with goodbye?
Did you think I'd crumble?
Did you think I'd lay down and die?
Oh, no, not I
I will survive
Oh, as long as I know how to love I know I'll stay alive
I've got all my life to live
I've got all my love to give
And I'll survive
I will survive
I will survive
Hey yeeeeah
Duduh duduh...

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Ok. Its not about the music, its about the comfort in the lyrics.
Bridge over troubled water

When you're weary
Feeling small
When tears are in your eyes
I will dry them all
I'm on your side
When times get rough
And friends just can't be found

[Chorus]
Like a bridge over troubled water
I will lay me down
Like a bridge over troubled water
I will lay me down

[Verse 2]
When you're down and out
When you're on the street
When evening falls so hard
I will comfort you
I'll take your part
When darkness comes
And pain is all around

[Chorus]
Like a bridge over troubled water
I will lay me down
Like a bridge over troubled water
I will lay me down
no one has ever loved me this much. i love other people like this
 

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Women are strange. Kissed her yesterday morning, and practically slept with her last night...so...yeah.

Also, I asked and she told me she's an ISTJ. Which is funny because that's the exact opposite of me. I wonder if that has anything to do with it.

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I've also fallen for girls who are like that. The experience was really painful. I was living together with her and she would always bring guys into her room. Quoting her, "Girls should sleep around while they're young and beautiful, because it's too late to regret it once we're old and nobody wants to do it with us anymore." And we come from a conservative background!
I wonder Ewoke, what type of relationship did you guys have? I bet it hasn't been a committed exclusive one.
 

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I wonder Ewoke, what type of relationship did you guys have? I bet it hasn't been a committed exclusive one.
We were just good friends. I knew her since high school, and then we also studied overseas at the same school. After graduation, we stayed at that country and rented a house together.

A lot has happened within the 10 years of our friendship, but unfortunately the feeling wasn't mutual.
 
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We were just good friends. I knew her since high school, and then we also studied overseas at the same school. After graduation, we stayed at that country and rented a house together.

A lot has happened within the 10 years of our friendship, but unfortunately the feeling wasn't mutual.
So she hadn't been in any romantic relationship with you. It's painful to see your crush sleeping now and then in your home, however it was her own life. Maybe you had better not living together?
 

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So she hadn't been in any romantic relationship with you.
We did have some sort of physical intimacy, but without intercourse. Just that she was casual about it, while I took it as the sign of "let's take this to the next stage." I was quite inexperienced back then and I wasn't expecting any of this. 馃槄

It's painful to see your crush sleeping now and then in your home, however it was her own life. Maybe you had better not living together?
It is indeed really painful. The incident caused me to be bitter towards women, at one point of my life (of course now I'm not).

But looking back, we did get closer as friends, which I think wouldn't have happened if we didn't live under the same roof. And despite all the bad memories, it didn't change the fact that we had a fair share of good memories too.
 
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