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Tbh I'm not even hurting that much. I already did all my hurting within the last few weeks leading up to this. It just kinda sucks because she really did love me at one time and is the first woman to ever love me, and it lasted from ages 40-42. So I'm just like kinda wondering if this will ever happen again.

But on the bright side, I already got another girl's number without even really having to try. I'll just call her some day and see what happens. No expectations.

Plus now I can get my head shaved. I was keeping my hair long for my woman.

And plus, now I learned to not even bother with ldr's.
 

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Tbh I'm not even hurting that much. I already did all my hurting within the last few weeks leading up to this. It just kinda sucks because she really did love me at one time and is the first woman to ever love me, and it lasted from ages 40-42. So I'm just like kinda wondering if this will ever happen again.

But on the bright side, I already got another girl's number without even really having to try. I'll just call her some day and see what happens. No expectations.

Plus now I can get my head shaved. I was keeping my hair long for my woman.

And plus, now I learned to not even bother with ldr's.
I'm glad you felt strong enough to move on with your life. I wish you luck with the new woman! ;-)
 

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I just don't exactly understand what's so depressing about it.
Keep re-reading it until you do as therapy.
 

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I have to admit I cried for a few minutes a couple mornings ago about it. Maybe I'm done crying now? I feel pretty okay atm.
 

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Well, people grow and change. Sometimes outgrow one another. If you and your girlfriend ended on good and mutual terms, I wouldn't see where the problem is. Sounds like you've had your moments of catharsis over what once was and might be sentiments treasured, but if you are ready to move on you move on. Let go of the former and embrace the potential with the current. Good luck and have fun.
 
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