Ok, i am in a relationship with the girl that i had a crush on in high school. We started dating almost two years ago. I need help understanding her better because obvisously i don't. She also is a ESFP. So what should i do, she is very secretive about her personal life and her family and still wont open up they way i wish she would. She also is really one-sided and it makes me so me, i do everything to make her happy and when i ask for one simple thing it turns into a big deal and then she gets mad when i try to explain myself. ??