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so Lately, ive been getting into alot of trouble and alot of relationships that i want to flourish or start have not because im too afraid of taking the risk of trusting in my Ni.
not only that, my Ni, needs patterns to make a judgement, when i see a pattern let me use an example of this one dude,
so we chat, we text, i set some bait, i see his reaction, i add it to my database, i start to see a pattern. hmm this one might like me, and he is willing to continue chatting, then i dont get a response, and that ruins the pattern i saw, so i dont take the risk, whats the point if theres nothing there?
another thing, i dont tend to invite certain people because i would assume (based on their behavior) that they would not be interested in going, then they see pics of me on facebook and they start to get a lil butt hurt,
so because of this, i dont like to trust in my Ni, sometimes, the signs will be there, with 100% confidence, but i would be to afraid of taking the risk and following through,
how do i go about excercising my intuition in better using it and focusing more on what is actually there instead of what i want to see.
im not the type to ask someone striaght up if they like me or would they want to go out or something, i wait to see the signs first, and usually even then its more of just going out as friends...
i feel like im just blabbing now.. boooo
not only that, my Ni, needs patterns to make a judgement, when i see a pattern let me use an example of this one dude,
so we chat, we text, i set some bait, i see his reaction, i add it to my database, i start to see a pattern. hmm this one might like me, and he is willing to continue chatting, then i dont get a response, and that ruins the pattern i saw, so i dont take the risk, whats the point if theres nothing there?
another thing, i dont tend to invite certain people because i would assume (based on their behavior) that they would not be interested in going, then they see pics of me on facebook and they start to get a lil butt hurt,
so because of this, i dont like to trust in my Ni, sometimes, the signs will be there, with 100% confidence, but i would be to afraid of taking the risk and following through,
how do i go about excercising my intuition in better using it and focusing more on what is actually there instead of what i want to see.
im not the type to ask someone striaght up if they like me or would they want to go out or something, i wait to see the signs first, and usually even then its more of just going out as friends...
i feel like im just blabbing now.. boooo