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What is Your Love Language?

  • Words of Affirmation

    Votes: 116 15.8%
  • Quality Time

    Votes: 290 39.5%
  • Receiving Gifts

    Votes: 9 1.2%
  • Acts of Service

    Votes: 79 10.7%
  • Physical Touch

    Votes: 241 32.8%

  • Total voters
    735
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Take the test here.

My results were:

Your primary love language is probably
Physical Touch
with a secondary love language being
Quality Time.

Complete set of results
Physical Touch: 11
Quality Time: 8
Words of Affirmation: 8
Acts of Service: 2
Receiving Gifts: 1

Words of Affirmation probably should be tied with Physical Touch for me. The last either or question; I need to be touched every day or I need your words of affirmation daily; was a toss up question, I need both.

I first took this test before I was in a relationship that had a mismatch in communication, so it's interesting to see how it came into play for myself. Really, Words of Affirmation should probably be highest. The boyfriend 'speaks' in Acts of Service, and a common phrase from his mouth when I ask for more verbal reassurance is "But you know how much I like you." through what he does, and while I recognize it and appreciate it, I don't fully register it, if that makes sense.

Others?
 

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Your primary love language is probably
Quality Time
with a secondary love language being
Physical Touch.

Complete set of results
Quality Time: 11
Physical Touch: 9
Words of Affirmation: 6
Acts of Service: 2
Receiving Gifts: 2

I'm not sure how much I agree with this. I'm not in a relationship now, so it is a bit tricky to recall past relationships/picture an ideal one. But this is probably more accurate than I'd like to admit.

I'd say that, for me, Quality Time, Physical Touch and Words of Affirmation are more equally balanced than this would suggest.
 

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I think because it's such a short test, certain areas can seem a little more unequal than they actually are.

This thread split because Lance moved the first post of mine, but there's the old thread still in General chat, I think, with a whole bunch of other responses. It's been pretty interesting to see the different responses to it. Growing up, and really until my first relationship when I was 19, it didn't even cross my mind that other people would express and desire love in different 'forms' than me.

Unrelated, your SN was tickling my mind, and I couldn't put my finger on it until I noticed your signature :proud:

And indeed there will be time...
 

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Your primary love language is probably
Physical Touch
with a secondary love language being
Words of Affirmation.


Complete set of results
Physical Touch: 11
Words of Affirmation: 10
Quality Time: 5
Receiving Gifts: 3
Acts of Service: 1



I would like to think that I value quality time more than that. But I guess it depends on your individual definition of "quality time". Maybe words of affirmation and touching is my idea of quality time.
 

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I know it's surprising, but I, an ISTP, took the test. The results actually aren't that surprising considering my type.

Your primary love languages are probably
Quality Time and
Words of Affirmation.

Complete set of results
Quality Time: 8
Words of Affirmation: 8
Acts of Service: 6
Physical Touch: 6
Receiving Gifts: 2

ISTPs generally need personal space which explains why it's Quality time rather than physical touch and of course, we like to show what we're feeling with actions so I'm surprised that acts of service isn't higher yet it's always good to know that what you do is appreciated
 

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Your primary love language is probably
Words of Affirmation
with a secondary love language being
Physical Touch.


Complete set of results
Words of Affirmation: 8
Physical Touch: 7
Quality Time: 7
Acts of Service: 6
Receiving Gifts: 2
 

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I don't think this has very much to do with personality typing.

This is mine:
Quality Time: 10
Acts of Service: 6
Words of Affirmation: 6
Receiving Gifts: 5
Physical Touch: 3

And hilariously this is my girlfriend's:
Physical Touch: 11
Words of Affirmation: 8
Quality Time: 7
Acts of Service: 3
Receiving Gifts: 1

My first two are within her last three, her first two are within my last three. I love it. Two years strong, lawl.
 

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Your primary love language is probably
Physical Touch
with a secondary love language being
Quality Time.

Complete set of results
Physical Touch: 12
Quality Time: 9
Words of Affirmation: 5
Acts of Service: 4
Receiving Gifts: 0

This couldn't be more accurate i love to hug, kiss, and trip with my gf. Words of affirmation could be higher still...
 

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Interesting...

Complete set of results
Physical Touch: 9
Quality Time: 9
Acts of Service: 8
Words of Affirmation: 3
Receiving Gifts: 1
 

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Your primary love language is probably
Quality Time
with a secondary love language being
Acts of Service.


Complete set of results
Quality Time: 12
Acts of Service: 8
Words of Affirmation: 5
Physical Touch: 3
Receiving Gifts: 2
 

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Your primary love language is probably
Physical Touch
with a secondary love language being
Quality Time.

Complete set of results
Physical Touch: 12
Quality Time: 8
Acts of Service: 5
Words of Affirmation: 5
Receiving Gifts: 0
 

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I'm waiting to see which personality type pops off with their primary as receiving gifts. That would make me crack up. Maybe LiamWolf since he likes new gadgets. LMAO! :laughing:
 

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I could have sworn that I did this test on here before, but it was probably INTJf..
Results:

Quality Time - Primary
Words of affirmation- Secondary.

Now that is low maintainance.
 

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Your primary love language is probably
Quality Time

with a secondary love language being
Physical Touch.

Complete set of results
Quality Time: 10
Physical Touch: 9
Acts of Service: 5
Words of Affirmation: 5
Receiving Gifts: 1

I think it would be just about perfect if one were to switch the quality time and physical touch scores.
 

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Your primary love languages are probably
Physical Touch and Quality Time.


Complete set of results
Physical Touch: 10
Quality Time: 10
Acts of Service: 4
Words of Affirmation: 4
Receiving Gifts: 2


Is this good or bad? :confused:
 
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