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1. Click on this link: Flickr: Explore! Look at the random photo for about 30 seconds. Copy and paste it here, and write about your impression of it.

I really like this one. Beautiful day, swimming, jet skiing, friends, hot dogs, ice cold beer. What could be better?

2. You are with a group of people in a car, heading to a different town to see your favorite band/artist/musician. Suddenly, the car breaks down for an unknown reason in the middle of nowhere. What are your initial thoughts? What are your outward reactions?

I would be pissed because I wasted money on the tickets and it will cost loads of money to get the car fixed. Other than that it depends on who i'm with. If I am with the "right" people, I can try to look at the situation as a fun adventure that will be an interesting story down the line. If I am with the "wrong" people Ill just be upset for most of the time.

3. You somehow make it to the concert. The driver wants to go to the afterparty that was announced (and assure you they won't drink so they can drive back later). How do you feel about this party? What do you do?

Fuck yeah! Lets go! I mean, why not, we came out to have fun right?

4. On the drive back, your friends are talking. A friend makes a claim that clashes with your current beliefs. What is your inward reaction? What do you outwardly say?

It really wouldn't bother me. If I know the person is sensitive to "arguing", I wont say anything because I wont want to upset them. If I know the person isn't that sensitive I will debate objectively, as soon as the conversation is over we would move on completely.

5. What would you do if you actually saw/experienced something that clashes with your previous beliefs, experiences, and habits?

6. What are some of your most important values? How did you come about determining them? How can they change?

Being happy.

Everything else, friends, money, family, love, health, success, are all a means to achieve the end. Happiness is the ultimate prize.

7. a) What about your personality most distinguishes you from everyone else? b) If you could change one thing about you personality, what would it be? Why?

I really can't think of anything major. I am much more spontaneous than others and Ive come to realize I value having fun more than most. The one thing I would change is to stop procrastinating so much and waste less time.

8. How do you treat hunches or gut feelings? In what situations are they most often triggered?

I often second guess my self. I'm trying to trust my guts/hunches more because Ive noticed that good things usually happen when I listen to them. I just naturally don't trust them for whatever reason. They're triggered when I am faced with a problem and am looking for a solution. My gut will tell me to do "option 1" but my brain will start telling me why "option 1" is wrong.

9. a) What activities energize you most? b) What activities drain you most? Why?

a.) "successful" conversations. (epically if its flirting lol!) Having fun. Making money from investments and entrepreneuring. Being with my friends. Spontaneous adventures.
b.) There are no activities that drain me. I get drained from lack of activity. Even homework gives me a little boost in energy.

10. What do you repress about your outward behavior or internal thought process when around others? Why?

Though I enjoy socializing and meeting new people, I am usually pretty quiet around strangers. I usually only engage in conversations with strangers if they approach me first or if they give me a signal. I hardly ever cold approach people but I feel amazing the very few times I do. I hold back because I have a fear of being judged I guessed, I dont want people to think "this guys so annoying, stop with the small talk already" or have girls think "why is the creep trying to talk to me?". I really wish I wasn't like this.
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