Hello. I'm an 8w7, and frankly, I feel it's been a flash-point for conflict among me and my friends, primarily with one of my friends who is an ENFP 4w3. Whenever I have an outburst of anger, or respond in a way that others see as vindictive or overly aggressive, I'm often mocked as a result. Why don't they take me seriously? It's common for them to tell me to "lighten up", but I don't feel that they realize how difficult that is. As an eight, I want to be in control. It's almost cyclical, because them mocking me causes me to get angry again, and so I lose even more control. How do I control the situation? I'm not sure of most of their Enneagram types, but I'm referring to people who are INFPs and ENFPs in Myers-Briggs. I'm sorry that I don't know their Enneagram types. Is there any way for me to let, or to even resolve this problem?