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Hey! It's cool to see a thread for LGBT members.

  1. What's your personality type (MBTI)? ENFP
  2. Is there anything in particular you've come to the LGBT chat for? Just to meet other LGBT peeps
  3. How old are you? 21
  4. What's your gender? Non-binary woman, don't ask how it works 🥴
  5. What's your sexual orientation? I'm a lesbian
  6. How long have you known your orientation? Well, I knew I wasn't straight since I was 15, but I thought I was bi. I realized I was a lesbian when I was 19
  7. Do you feel like you fit any orientation-related stereotypes? Well, I do fit into the lesbians love cats stereotype. It's a dumb stereotype though, a person's favorite animal has nothing to do with their sexual orientation. I just happened to grow up with cats and love them.
  8. Have you experienced any ****- or transphobia? Unfortunately, yes.
  9. Are you out? For how long, or are you planning to? If you are, how did people react? Yeah, sort of. I don't go out of my way to hide it, but won't walk around talking about how I'm gay unless the subject comes up. I'm not telling my dad's side of the family tho.
  10. Do you know many LGBT people? Online, sure. In real life, not so many.
  11. Have you been involved in any LGBT organisations or societies? What did you think of them? Never have been.
  12. Have you been to any LGBT events? How were they? Nope.
  13. Do LGBT considerations influence you politically? Not really, I think. My sexual orientation and my beliefs about politics are different things. If this is in regards to marriage equality - I believe in marriage equality, but I would have believed in it even if I were straight.
  14. Are you in a relationship? If so, for how long? Nope.
  15. What do you look for in a partner? Respects my boundaries, shows interests in my stories (as in the shows and movies I want to create), is respectful, a good taste in fashion is a bonus. I definitely want to date a feminine girl.
  16. Have you had any sexual experiences with the same gender? Good or bad? Nope 🥴
  17. Have you had any sexual experiences with another gender? Good or bad? God no
  18. Do you go out on the 'scene' (LGBT clubs and bars) much? Can you recommend anywhere? I don't, there isn't much of a scene in the city I live in.
  19. Name some famous people you have a crush on. I don't do the whole celeb crush thing, tbh.
  20. Show us your picture? Ehhh no
 

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1. What's your personality type (MBTI)? ISTP
2. Is there anything in particular you've come to the LGBT chat for? No
3. How old are you? 21
4. What's your gender? F
5. What's your sexual orientation? I don’t “feel” sexual attraction.
6. How long have you known your orientation? Orientation? You mean, lack of orientation... I was 11 or 12
7. Do you feel like you fit any orientation-related stereotypes? Idk
8. Have you experienced any ****- or transphobia? Yes
9. Are you out? For how long, or are you planning to? If you are, how did people react? No
10. Do you know many LGBT people? A few
11. Have you been involved in any LGBT organisations or societies? What did you think of them? No, I’m not interested.
12. Have you been to any LGBT events? How were they? NO
13. Do LGBT considerations influence you politically? Not much here
14. Are you in a relationship? If so, for how long? No
15. What do you look for in a partner? For Later.
16. Have you had any sexual experiences with the same gender? Good or bad? No.
17. Have you had any sexual experiences with another gender? Good or bad? No
18. Do you go out on the 'scene' (LGBT clubs and bars) much? Can you recommend anywhere? No.
19. Name some famous people you have a crush on.
Ew .
20. Show us your picture? No
 

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  1. What's your personality type (MBTI)? ENFP is my most recent typing but I can also see ENTP.
  2. Is there anything in particular you've come to the LGBT chat for? To alleviate my boredom and have people ask me questions.
  3. How old are you? 16
  4. What's your gender? AFAB but ambiguously FTM, strongly considering transition, can't because of parents, suspect it might not be genuine dysphoria though.
  5. What's your sexual orientation? Asexual would be the modern term, but as that makes some people think it's a complete lack of libido, I prefer the older term of anallosexual. (Allosexual meaning attracted to other people; anallosexual meaning not attracted to other people.)
  6. How long have you known your orientation? Didn't really consider myself ace/anallo until around 14 when I realized I had no genuine attraction to other people. I was like "I'm bi" before because I was like "sure I'd have sex with a man or a woman" but realized I had no, like, drive to want to do that.
  7. Do you feel like you fit any orientation-related stereotypes? Eh, there's the "asexual emotionless robot" stereotype lol.
  8. Have you experienced any ****- or transphobia? Many people are telling me it's normal for AFABs to be "asexual" and that I'm just a confused straight girl. Virtually nobody thinks of me as a man but this may be my fault, I have little interest in the social aspects and seem sexually motivated.
  9. Are you out? For how long, or are you planning to? If you are, how did people react? I don't even bother explaining asexuality to people anymore, but I tend to just casually mention my dysphoria a lot on online chats. People tend to tell me that I'll grow out of it, my parents are strongly opposed to me transitioning though. They seem almost like, in a "globo ****" conspiracy theorist mindset.
  10. Do you know many LGBT people? I know some online.
  11. Have you been involved in any LGBT organisations or societies? What did you think of them? No not really, I relate to almost nobody and LGBT people are no exception.
  12. Have you been to any LGBT events? How were they? Nope.
  13. Do LGBT considerations influence you politically? No, I am apolitical.
  14. Are you in a relationship? If so, for how long? No.
  15. What do you look for in a partner? Ideally we'd be a QPR (queerplatonic relationship, kind of like, a mixture between romance and best friends). I used to have a list of traits I liked but now it's pretty much "do i click with them or nah?"
  16. Have you had any sexual experiences with the same gender? Good or bad? No.
  17. Have you had any sexual experiences with another gender? Good or bad? No.
  18. Do you go out on the 'scene' (LGBT clubs and bars) much? Can you recommend anywhere? No.
  19. Name some famous people you have a crush on. Never had a crush on anyone in my life, never understood how people could get romantically attached to someone they don't even know in person.
  20. Show us your picture? No.
 

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Hey people, hello, I have a very positive attitude towards LGBT, and support it, it all started with the fact that ever since childhood I realized that I do not like girls and I like boys more, but I was very shy to talk about it, but I was not shy to talk about it to real people in porn games that I played, in this game 3DXChat was a chat room and i communicated with one very beautiful person who told me that i should not be shy about my choices and many other interesting things, it was wonderful thanks to him i stopped being closed and now live happily, i did not think that an ordinary game would ever help me so much.
 

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Hey people, hello, I have a very positive attitude towards LGBT, and support it, it all started with the fact that ever since childhood I realized that I do not like girls and I like boys more, but I was very shy to talk about it, but I was not shy to talk about it to real people in porn games that I played, in this game 3DXChat was a chat room and i communicated with one very beautiful person who told me that i should not be shy about my choices and many other interesting things, it was wonderful thanks to him i stopped being closed and now live happily, i did not think that an ordinary game would ever help me so much.
Welcome to the personality cafe! I'm glad you met someone that you could help you accept yourself. I noticed you struggled with English, some things that you might want to keep in mind is that the word for not being open about being LGBT is 'closeted'; not 'closed.' Also 'beautiful' has a feminine connotation/implication, it can be used for men but it's typically not.
 

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1. What's your personality type (MBTI)? ESTP

2. Is there anything in particular you've come to the LGBT chat for? No

3. How old are you? 38

4. What's your gender? F

5. What's your sexual orientation? Bisexual

6. How long have you known your Orientation?
Well I didn’t know what it really meant. But I always knew since like 6 I was attracted to boys & girls. I remember having a crush on some boy chasing him in first grade. And I remember also having a crush on some girl I sat behind. I didn’t feel sexual at the time but knew I liked them both.

7. Do you feel like you fit any orientation-related stereotypes?
Sort of yes and sorta no.
-Yes with cliche stereotypes of haven been promiscuous and wild.
-No, in a modern day current sense. Of a cliche. I’m not emo, I’m not having an identity crisis related to anything to do with my sexuality or orientation. I don’t say I’m queer, and I’m not a married wife going around using myself as bait. And I’m definitely not a fucken unicorn.

8. Have you experienced any ****- or transphobia?
Yes of course. I can’t say I’ve enjoyed it. My ex husband was incredibly abusive over this topic actually. I don’t want to get into it. It was bad though.

9. Are you out? For how long, or are you planning to?
If you mean out like I don’t keep it a secret, correct.

If you mean out like with a bunch of pride stuff identifying me as lgbtq or marching in pride, no.

I’ve been ‘out’ since highschool where it was a pretty big deal (for the time and age group), I was a chicks date for her homecoming coronation. It really was a big deal that two girls who were seen as fairly ‘normal’ and generally liked, who weren’t goth were each other’s date at a homecoming crowning. Back then (2000) it wasn’t a socially open thing like in highschool I mean, especially not for mainstream people who weren’t emo/goth. It was only mainstream on like the show the real world and like Ellen 🤣. I was not loud and proud like my date. But I didn’t hide either. I’ve basically always been like that.

I pass a lot however in society. Like at work etc. people just assume I’m straight.

I had a point where I repressed it. And was just dating straight. I’m not going to get into it but I think it had alot to do with something I mentioned above. (This was in my early 30s when I was newly single). I think I just had a lot to work out.

10. Do you know many LGBT people?
Yes all the above.

11. Have you been involved in any LGBT organisations or societies?
Hell no. The only thing I could see myself being apart of is a youth support or outreach. Outside that I’m not really the type by large even outside of lgbtq, aside from human services across the board.

12. Have you been to any LGBT events? How were they?
Not my cup of tea. But I mean I also don’t like cheesy things like marathons and crap either. I organize events. I don’t usually attend as a guest 🤣. Probably when you’re behind the scenes too much on stuff ya just roll your eyes. To me this is yuppie shit.

13. Do LGBT considerations influence you politically?
Nope. I’ve been yelled at by lgbtq for not jumping on the bandwagon. As far as political party that claims to support. I personally don’t think either major party really supports lgbtq. Left tends to exploit, Right tends to be outright bigoted, often.

14. Are you in a relationship? If so, for how long?
No

15. What do you look for in a partner?
Compatibility
Love
Balance
Mutual Attraction

16. Have you had any sexual experiences with the same gender? Good or bad?
Yes (depends on the person).
I will say much better with real lesbian or bisexual. When I fooled around with trisexuals by accident it wasn’t great, no not because of experience but they’re removed and detached from the act and too in their heads vs being in touch physically or emotionally

17. Have you had any sexual experiences with another gender? Good or bad?
Yes (depends on person)

18. Do you go out on the 'scene' (LGBT clubs and bars) much? Can you recommend anywhere?
No I don’t in general. But yes I have been.
There’s somethings I wasn’t huge on.
-Like old fat men that pass as straight paying 18 yr old boys dressed as fairies under the table.
-A lot of mockery. I mean shit some of it is just a spectacle to me from the standpoint I view it like what the circus was originally. A place where society’s outliers were paid by an audience for observation. I just don’t like it. It’s become fetishized culture to some degree.
-I have actually thought some drag shows were impressive and entertaining and not a complete mockery like what I just talked about.

19. Name some famous people you have a crush on.
Not really crushes on famous people

20. Show us your picture?
Meh I’m pictured alotta places around the forum
 

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Welcome to the personality cafe! I'm glad you met someone that you could help you accept yourself. I noticed you struggled with English, some things that you might want to keep in mind is that the word for not being open about being LGBT is 'closeted'; not 'closed.' Also 'beautiful' has a feminine connotation/implication, it can be used for men but it's typically not.
Yes, I apologize for my English, I try to improve my knowledge every day
 

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Sorry if I'm not allowed cause I'm straight but came across this article and it was interesting. So this gay guy falls in love with a woman? 🤔 Wouldn't that make him bi? Idk perhaps it's complicated.
I guess there's no definite line. But for me as a straight person I couldn't think of being in love with a girl so it must be the same for homosexuals about the opposite gender. But, I guess if it was the "right" person it might happen. That would be pansexual then? Idk I'm sorry don't mean to derail the thread.

The one thing about this story though is how forward the woman was even though she knew he was gay. It's like she was forcing herself into him or something which I found a bit inappropriate/rude/disrespectful. Weird.

 

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Let's start! In blue, are my own answers to this questionnaire.


  1. What's your personality type (MBTI)? INTP
  2. Is there anything in particular you've come to the LGBT chat for? To meet gay people here.
  3. How old are you? 23
  4. What's your gender? M
  5. What's your sexual orientation? Gay
  6. How long have you known your orientation? Since I was 10 years old.
  7. Do you feel like you fit any orientation-related stereotypes? Perhaps music choice (predominantly pop) and fashion sense. A bit weak physically. Like to look good. Mostly female friends. Not into soccer/football, basketball, though I am into other sports like tennis.
  8. Have you experienced any ****- or transphobia? No, only because I am careful and am not out to most people I do not know.
  9. Are you out? For how long, or are you planning to? If you are, how did people react? Out to parents, some close friends, not to people at work.
  10. Do you know many LGBT people? I know a few in real life.
  11. Have you been involved in any LGBT organisations or societies? What did you think of them? Only once, and never again.
  12. Have you been to any LGBT events? How were they? Only once. It was intimidating and I felt uncomfortable the whole time I was there. Not going again.
  13. Do LGBT considerations influence you politically? Somewhat.
  14. Are you in a relationship? If so, for how long? No.
  15. What do you look for in a partner? I am picky. Good education. Comes from a good family. Caring and protective. Dedicated and loyal. Active. Caucasian (shallow and racist, perhaps, but it's what I like and want, and I am not Caucasian myself).
  16. Have you had any sexual experiences with the same gender? Good or bad? No.
  17. Have you had any sexual experiences with another gender? Good or bad? No.
  18. Do you go out on the 'scene' (LGBT clubs and bars) much? Can you recommend anywhere? No.
  19. Name some famous people you have a crush on. Usually have crushes on people I know or see in real life. Novak Djokovic, but he has a wife. Kevin Zegers, a Zac Efron look-alike. Zac Efron. Various Canadian male models e.g. Matt Loewen.
  20. Show us your picture? Maybe later.

Copy and paste this questionnaire and answer below. Do not quote this post. Have fun!
ENF mutha fuckin P


cuz I felt like it


21



male


ghey


since age 12


  • I like Madonna XD
  • I'm high maintenance about my appearence
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when I younger (before I was out). not recently


yes, for about 6 months :happy:


a few (I have a date with a cute one on Monday 😆 )


once, didn't like it


nope


not really. granted, in extreme circumstances, it might, but not currently


no :sad:


I'm picky as fuck. in fact, my sexual preferences are racist, classist AND typist lol

physically
  • thin
  • small nose
  • heart shaped face
  • blue eyes
  • Caucasian
  • clear skin
  • styled hair (usually I like straight, but curly hair works for some guys)
  • preppy

personality
  • affectionate
  • playful
  • adventurous
  • mischievous
  • goofball


yes. twice somewhat enjoyable but not quite as glamorous as I thought it would be


no


I go to gay night on Wednesdays at a local club. most of the guys there are disgusting hipsters though so I mostly go to dance and maybe talk to the 1-2 cute guys there.


  • Justin Bieber
  • Charlie McDonnnel
  • Caspar Lee
  • Finn and Jack Harries


Great lips sexy boy, hope you are a good kisser. thats a key when you find your dreamboat, just shut up and kiss me we'll work out the details.
 

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1. What's your personality type (MBTI)? ESFP

2. Is there anything in particular you've come to the LGBT chat for? No

3. How old are you? 21

4. What's your gender? M

5. What's your sexual orientation? Gay

6. How long have you known your orientation? I knew I liked boys when I was four, but was nine when I first heard the word "gay" and realized I was 😂

7. Do you feel like you fit any orientation-related stereotypes? I guess so? The majority of music I listen to is by women. I've been told I'm very expressive and I talk with my hands/arms quite a bit. I'm constantly drinking iced coffee–even in winter.

8. Have you experienced any ****- or transphobia? Yeah. Mostly from my high school teachers and extended family.

9. Are you out? For how long, or are you planning to? If you are, how did people react? I'm out. I mean it's not a secret, but I'm not advertising it.

10. Do you know many LGBT people? I know a handful.

11. Have you been involved in any LGBT organisations or societies? What did you think of them? Kind of? That stuff isn't really my cup of tea, however I'm part of my work's Pride group which does community outreach about twice a year.

12. Have you been to any LGBT events? How were they? No.

13. Do LGBT considerations influence you politically? Somewhat. Like what @Sensational said, I don't feel like either side (at least in the States) is particularly looking out for us, but I'll vote for who isn't pushing to strip LGBTQ rights.

14. Are you in a relationship? If so, for how long? No.

15. What do you look for in a partner? Love, compatibility, and loyalty. Someone who's family oriented, enjoys traveling, and is willing to put equal work in the relationship.

16. Have you had any sexual experiences with the same gender? Good or bad? [redacted]

17. Have you had any sexual experiences with another gender? Good or bad? No.

18. Do you go out on the 'scene' (LGBT clubs and bars) much? Can you recommend anywhere? I've not been, but I'd be open to going to one.

19. Name some famous people you have a crush on. Tyler Hoechlin, Cheyenne Jackson, Maluma, Måns Zelmerlöw. He's not famous, but Cuddy from The Hockey Guys on TikTok... 🥵 (don't ask me why lmao)

20. Show us your picture? 🙄
 

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1. What's your personality type (MBTI)? INTJ

2. Is there anything in particular you've come to the LGBT chat for?
Not really. For fun I guess?

3. How old are you?
15

4. What's your gender?
Female.

5. What's your sexual orientation?
Bisexual.

6. How long have you known your Orientation?
Since last October lol. So, not long.


7. Do you feel like you fit any orientation-related stereotypes?
YES. My favorite shoes are my black combat boots, I love my leather jacket, I have the so-called "bisexual bob", I can't sit right, and finger guns and peace signs are my awkward gestures of choice. How did I not realize I was bi sooner???


8. Have you experienced any ****- or transphobia?
Luckily enough, not yet. But there is time and I know I will personally experience this in due time.


9. Are you out? For how long, or are you planning to?
Yup. I came out shortly after I realized I was bi in the first place. At this point, I don't care who knows and who doesn't.


10. Do you know many LGBT people?
I do. A decent amount of my friends/people who go to my school that I know, are LGBTQ+ (which is ironic considering I go to a catholic school lol).


11. Have you been involved in any LGBT organizations or societies?
Nope.

12. Have you been to any LGBT events? How were they?
Nope.


13. Do LGBT considerations influence you politically?
I would say yes. Simple human rights are something that shouldn't be argued against.


14. Are you in a relationship? If so, for how long?
Nope. I don't know where to meet people my type lol.


15. What do you look for in a partner?
I obviously have to find them physically attractive. I am not going to date someone who I do not find attractive. I tend to find short hair and pretty eyes very attractive. But HUMOR is something that immediately draws me to someone. Also, someone who I can be sarcastic with and they have no problem dishing it back out to me.

16. Have you had any sexual experiences with the same gender? Good or bad?
Nope.


17. Have you had any sexual experiences with another gender? Good or bad?
Nope.


18. Do you go out on the 'scene' (LGBT clubs and bars) much? Can you recommend anywhere?
Nope.


19. Name some famous people you have a crush on.
90s Leonardo DiCaprio, young Johnny Depp, Maggie Gyllenhaal in the movie "Stranger Than Fiction", Kate Austin from "Lost", Alex from "Lost", Sayid from "Lost", the list goes on.


20. Show us your picture?
No thank you :)
 
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