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Im currently in a pretty serious relationship with my girlfriend whom I believe is an ESTP. Ive read many of the ESTP Articles and I believe they describe her perfectly. As you can tell, I am an ISFP.
We have had a few ups and downs in our relationship over the past two years of our relationship. One even leading us to break up for 6 months. Most of you would question why we got back together after such a long time but we both found ourselves missing/thinking about each other on a constant daily basis. Since then we have made amends and have both said we are committing ourselves to the relationship and trying to make it last as long as possible but while also making it fun. Neither of us want it to feel like a job.
One thing in particular that really struck me in the description was saying that ESTP have different levels of displaying their affections. This is extremely true for her. Some days she is the most loving girl in the world and other days its almost as if she could care less. I have found though that just like the description says, when she is acting as if she doesnt care it is because something else is going on in her life and she is focusing more on it.
So my question to you would be. If you are an ESTP and you have been in a long term relationship, what qualities did you value and what kept you around? How does your expression of affection fluctuate?
Also, if you have any suggestions for me Id greatly appreciate it! Because I love this girl more than words can describe.
We have had a few ups and downs in our relationship over the past two years of our relationship. One even leading us to break up for 6 months. Most of you would question why we got back together after such a long time but we both found ourselves missing/thinking about each other on a constant daily basis. Since then we have made amends and have both said we are committing ourselves to the relationship and trying to make it last as long as possible but while also making it fun. Neither of us want it to feel like a job.
One thing in particular that really struck me in the description was saying that ESTP have different levels of displaying their affections. This is extremely true for her. Some days she is the most loving girl in the world and other days its almost as if she could care less. I have found though that just like the description says, when she is acting as if she doesnt care it is because something else is going on in her life and she is focusing more on it.
So my question to you would be. If you are an ESTP and you have been in a long term relationship, what qualities did you value and what kept you around? How does your expression of affection fluctuate?
Also, if you have any suggestions for me Id greatly appreciate it! Because I love this girl more than words can describe.