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There have been similar threads about this (INFJ death stare, INFJ eyes) but i wanted to start one specifically about this. When i look at someone, i feel like i'm not just looking at their physical body but trying to figure out what they're feeling. I'm sitting there, looking at someone, but not looking at THEM them but "feeling" them or getting a SENSE of their presence. :mellow:
Ive had times where I would be sitting with someone, having a conversation, looking at them, talking normally. like I do with everyone. but I've been told by people who were observing that there seems to be some kind of 'connection" - they would keep looking back and forth at us to try and understand what was happening but later on they said that they thought something was cooking (romantically). because there seemed to be some kind of intense connection. im aware that i have this intense looking/feeling thing when i like someone and i am obviously more intersted and focused on them (and trying to 'connect" with them on another level), but i have been told this even when i wasnt really interested/focusing specifically on someone.
Thoughts? :mellow: and im just curious at how other people have seen you guys when you are aware you do this? im always curious about how i come off to others..
Ive had times where I would be sitting with someone, having a conversation, looking at them, talking normally. like I do with everyone. but I've been told by people who were observing that there seems to be some kind of 'connection" - they would keep looking back and forth at us to try and understand what was happening but later on they said that they thought something was cooking (romantically). because there seemed to be some kind of intense connection. im aware that i have this intense looking/feeling thing when i like someone and i am obviously more intersted and focused on them (and trying to 'connect" with them on another level), but i have been told this even when i wasnt really interested/focusing specifically on someone.
Thoughts? :mellow: and im just curious at how other people have seen you guys when you are aware you do this? im always curious about how i come off to others..