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I'm only in high school and 95% of my friends I've met in middle school and such and I have a few friends and a good amount of acquaintances. So I'm happy but in terms of really good friends I think I'm really lacking. I've drifted apart from people I used to talk a lot to it seems like.
My best friend I would say we talk enough (school is starting so that will change for the better) but my other friend I was really good friends with has totally drifted apart from about February or so. We've been friends for 3 years or so and we talked and hanged out a lot. We also are in orchestra and play guitar too. So in February we we're out with friends and she was "sharing gum" (virtually kissing) with our friend (girl) and her friend (not friends with him and he's a jerk too), I was the only one who didn't share it... so the next day she tells me she really liked virtually making out with him and a few days later they start going out. I was absolutely shocked. He's the last person I could ever see her dating. He's lazy, rude to me and a lot of people, bad at school (he was almost failing chinese class, I was in his class), while she is nice, talented, and get's almost all A's. So he keeps harassing me to stop bugging about their relationship (I wasn't doing anything), sent very nasty messages to me for a few weeks, and I didn't talk to her for a while. We didn't talk much at all for a while and we haven't hanged out other than school since they started dating. I messaged her saying your relationship is completely splitting us apart, and she agreed and wanted to try to be friends again. We still talk now but it's not the same, we don't talk nearly as much as we used to and never hang out out of school. It seems my best friend is the only person I ever confide in, and during the summer we talk only like every 3-4 days or so. She's still dating him and he's not mean to me anymore but nothing is the same... I wish it was like old times...
Long story but does anyone else want to share? I don't make "best friends" fast at all so when I lose one it's very sad.
My best friend I would say we talk enough (school is starting so that will change for the better) but my other friend I was really good friends with has totally drifted apart from about February or so. We've been friends for 3 years or so and we talked and hanged out a lot. We also are in orchestra and play guitar too. So in February we we're out with friends and she was "sharing gum" (virtually kissing) with our friend (girl) and her friend (not friends with him and he's a jerk too), I was the only one who didn't share it... so the next day she tells me she really liked virtually making out with him and a few days later they start going out. I was absolutely shocked. He's the last person I could ever see her dating. He's lazy, rude to me and a lot of people, bad at school (he was almost failing chinese class, I was in his class), while she is nice, talented, and get's almost all A's. So he keeps harassing me to stop bugging about their relationship (I wasn't doing anything), sent very nasty messages to me for a few weeks, and I didn't talk to her for a while. We didn't talk much at all for a while and we haven't hanged out other than school since they started dating. I messaged her saying your relationship is completely splitting us apart, and she agreed and wanted to try to be friends again. We still talk now but it's not the same, we don't talk nearly as much as we used to and never hang out out of school. It seems my best friend is the only person I ever confide in, and during the summer we talk only like every 3-4 days or so. She's still dating him and he's not mean to me anymore but nothing is the same... I wish it was like old times...
Long story but does anyone else want to share? I don't make "best friends" fast at all so when I lose one it's very sad.