Alright, I've been around and posting a fair amount, and honestly I have found something with which to take issue in these forums. So many threads are about how INFP males feel inadequate as a male. It's getting sickening. -Seriously search INFP male and see how many are about unfair male standards- The first time I see it, alright I can dig that. I'm catchin the vibe. Then I see 4 or 5 more. Every time I see the same sort of comments on these threads: "It's ok" and "You'll find a girl who likes you for you" and "Just be yourself"
I'm here to tell you stop being a cry baby about it. Life can't always be perfect. Roll with the punches and you'll be better for it. I can ask a girl out and she could say no, who cares? I'll still be alive tomorrow. We don't fall short on some manliness standard. I can spend my time musing on things like poetry and art, and I am no less a man than the one who picks up his weights at the gym. I am an INFP and I am no less a man than any other type, and I'll be damned if another INFP male blames his typology for not meeting up to some standard that just puts our type at a disadvantage.
An INFP is just as capable of being a man as any maple is capable of being a tree. So what if the maple doesn't have as strong of wood as the oak or pine? It makes sweet syrup doesn't it?
Now get your faces out of the mud, stop dragging your feet, and be happy you are what you are because we are capable of being awesome people. You just have to try.
I'm here to tell you stop being a cry baby about it. Life can't always be perfect. Roll with the punches and you'll be better for it. I can ask a girl out and she could say no, who cares? I'll still be alive tomorrow. We don't fall short on some manliness standard. I can spend my time musing on things like poetry and art, and I am no less a man than the one who picks up his weights at the gym. I am an INFP and I am no less a man than any other type, and I'll be damned if another INFP male blames his typology for not meeting up to some standard that just puts our type at a disadvantage.
An INFP is just as capable of being a man as any maple is capable of being a tree. So what if the maple doesn't have as strong of wood as the oak or pine? It makes sweet syrup doesn't it?
Now get your faces out of the mud, stop dragging your feet, and be happy you are what you are because we are capable of being awesome people. You just have to try.