Like..the fairy tale castle mentioned in Paramore's song 'Brick by Boring Brick', right Eden?Usually, they want me to be a player in their fantasy version of the world, and they get very upset when I refuse to comply and insist on reality. :crazy: Funny, the INFP being the one jolting everyone out of their imaginary worlds. I just don't tolerate this kind of imagination which is harmful to others/self.
Yeah that happens a lot. If you have a lot of guy friends chances are 80% would want to sleep with you or fantasized about it before and then just accept its not gonna happen. The prettier you are the higher the probability. Unless they are gay. That is what happens in all relationships that happen. The strange thing is women don't see this. Men's intentions are about sex a lot more than women think, they can't help it. Where as women need emotional connection. The more they know you the stronger it is too. Of course the times this changes is when the guy is fixated on his relationship. He thinks about his girlfriend that way exclusively the more introverted they are. And then that is a reason why attached men are seen more attractive by women. He's taken and unlikely to do manipulation to you to try to get to a stage where he could be in a relationship. Of course this is untrue, because whether extroverts or introverts, when there are some needs that remain unfulfilled they are going to explore those urges if they are confident, if they are not, not so much. Well that is what I think about it anyway. And that is why some men attract women to they just talk about their needs for sex openly and women respect that more than if men are dishonest with themselves and evasive. Strangely women think it takes guts to show such vulnerability to sex and then their attitude is changes accordingly. When the reality is probably that they have learned its what works to get what they want more often and do it. That's my thoughts though after writing that its biased and am doubting what I said.The whole 'trust' thing. I was fooled into believing that he could have cared for me as a friend... Guess not.
I've gotten this a lot, but they didn't even realize that was their reason for loving me.i've been manipulated a lot in my life. people who i thought were genuinely interested in me, turned out only interested in what i could do for them. fml.