read some self help books, seek a therapist, just seek out things that will make you happy. Many thing could be causing you to feel bitter. Break free from the reassessment you feel <-- common cause of anger.
As a INFJ, imagine your looking at yourself through a 3rd person. what would you tell yourself? sort in your mind what you desire be in your life.
As a INFJ, imagine your looking at yourself through a 3rd person. what would you tell yourself? sort in your mind what you desire be in your life.