aww... lol is that why u are so interested in ISFPs? XDI have an ISFP roommate who feels the same way about herself.
to me gossip has always seemed like something for ppl with nothing better to do. I guess its ppl's way of getting a little excitement out of life. typically ISFPs are peaceful ppls who dont really bother others who are gossipy and definitely dont start any of our own. gossip = conflicts so we dont get into it. i have a friend who was complaining that all of her friends are always guys.What she meant by a man's woman is that I prefer to converse with men. They take you at face value, women tend to read more into a conversation than what was intended. Then take something you've said out of context and talk behind your back. I like straight up front conversations. I hate gossip so that puts me at a disadvantage immediately. I feel life has more to offer than hashing and rehashing pettiness. I do talk to women the same way I talk to men, although I don't get the same reaction. She also pointed out that women are competitive and view conversation with a man as a competive thing.
Maybe you prefer men who aren't afraid of commitment and the qualities that may be associated with people who don't have such a fear?I love women. I mean, after being at an all girl's boarding school for high school and then a practically all girl's university, I should think I know how to get along with women... But I get along well with men too. Married men more often than single men for some reason.
Yeah, I never really got the appeal. If I say something about someone, it's never with the intention of stirring up trouble. I don't make waves for fun.typically ISFPs are peaceful ppls who dont really bother others who are gossipy and definitely dont start any of our own.
YES! Oh God YES! I know this is a generalization but it's so true. Why can't I just joke around and tease someone because I'm in a silly mood and not have them twist it into something else? I DON'T DO HIDDEN MEANINGS! But it's what all the other women seem to expect... and they get offended... and I usually don't even pick up that they're offended til they blow up at me later, or suddenly stop talking to me.basically its like you said. girls like gossip and making issues out of what ppl say for their entertainment where as guys like to joke and tease for their amusement. (or at least thats the typical way everything is)
Are there any men who don't? Maybe you do or say something differently with the men who think you are flirting with them?On the other hand, men always read flirting into my behavior when the reality is, sometimes I'm just happy to finally be myself with a friend... :frustrating: