People sometimes tell me that I am good at solving conflicts. It is is as if I were to create a career out of mediating and accommodating people and perhaps making a hell lot of peace. Then again I notice that I am helpless really... I can't just help myself. They tell me that I take the party to another step all together. I sometimes wonder why people have so many conflicts... yes you tell me; conflict in relationships... most importantly. So they might perhaps ask me: "What and how exactly is it that you solve conflicts: what is your technique?".... "What technique?" I then answer. Then again I never did make an effort to solve conflict... surprisingly enough... it is as if it just did happen... just like that. I tell them that you can't perhaps help yourself and perhaps it was just better that you did accept that.
So, other INFPs, are you good at mediating other people? And perhaps I should ask the same fool's question: what is your technique?
So, other INFPs, are you good at mediating other people? And perhaps I should ask the same fool's question: what is your technique?