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1. Emotionally Stable 2. Intelligent I married a beautiful woman once who was not emotionally stable enough to keep. Nothing wrong with good looks but a few years down the road it doesn't matter much.
 

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She can be emotionaly unstable if she is kind to me, doesnt take her frustrations out by lashing out at me.

She doesnt have to be good looking if I find her attractive, but I assume the quetion means good looking from my perspective. Lots of guys want someone their guy friends will be impressed with (at least subconsiosly this is what they want).
 

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Emotionally stable and intelligent.

But I agree, if she isn't at least a LITTLE physically attractive, then meh. No woman for me.

Emotional instability is the biggest turnoff to me, and I'd like to be able to take to a woman about something more meaningful than the hottest trends and parties she has gone to.
 

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(You know, I was going to go with the 'correct' answer, but I'm feeling in a contrary mood today) I'm going to pick intelligent and good looking-- I figure that if I bring emotional stability to the relationship, then that can make up for any imbalance in the other person. (Assuming, this isn't some kind of pathological emotional instability at least) I think that such a person would have a sort of emotional eccentricity to match my own quirkiness.
 

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Intelligent and Emotionally stable. She'll feel the same as a "good looking" woman in the dark.
 

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Depends on what "good looking" means. If it means supermodel-esque at a minimum, then I'll go with intelligent and good looking. Otherwise I'd pick intelligent and good looking. I've dealt with a couple of emotionally unstable ladies in the past and I can work with (or fix) that.
 

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Every man has what he calls "good looking". So I don't ask what that means to the poster, but I invite you or whoever else to share what "good looking" means to you. I'll even share too if you're game.
 
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