I just figured since you all seemed so insightful if you guys could give me some insight on this situation. I am sort of dating this ENFJ guy and as much as I like him and all it seems to me that after reading all this stuff that ENFJs say about how they view ENFPs (my type) as flaky (i.e. not returning calls, not attending, disorganized about where they will be), it makes me feel like my ENFJ guy doesn't really like me considering that he finds it to be such a hassle to answer the phone when he's out doing something. He told me that I think too much and that it's stressful to have to answer the phone when I call because I talk too much. Maybe I do talk too much but doesn't it seem like he doesn't really like me that much if he winces when the phone rings?