My best friend ( Supposed ISTP, Her personality used to be INTP) and I were best friends since Freshman year, we are now in Junior year. She randomly just stopped talking to me last week. She ignored everything I did message her. At the time I didn't think anything was wrong, so I was just sending memes etc. She left it all on read. She ignored me at school, but for some reason sat with me at breakfast, along with her sister. And she told her sister in front of me that she was talking to a bunch of guys all weekend. Basically saying "I have been ignoring you."
I asked my friend to talk to her and get some information because I am not going to give her the satisfaction of knowing I'm worried or upset. She told my friend that she felt like she was my therapist, she didn't like that I had a different opinion on things, she didnt like that we were both introverted around each other, (We weren't. We actually are extremely outgoing around one another) Then she said she talked to her parents about it, (They already don't like me because I lost my faith in religion) And they also suggested not being friends with me. Yet, she is still friends with a guy who drinks, smokes, lost his virginity at 13 ( She is really negative when it comes to virginity) , and does cocaine, and she came close to dating him but he dropped her?
She even said she didn't like being ignored because he just completely started ignoring her. Thus causing her to cry and go on a huge rant about how she hates when people just choose to ignore her instead of talking it out.
Let me remind you, that she is extremely hypocritical and filled with double standards.
She makes fun of girls for so many things and called them "hoes" for doing those things, then she goes and does the same thing and laughs it off and pretends she never said it.
She constantly made fun of me. Reminding me how short I am, how I have "Stubby legs", and how she's prettier than me. She talks about how big my breast and butt are? Why?? That is so embarassing. She made fun of me because a group of guy friends called my name and said good morning to me, and said it was "Weird". She called me stupid in front of the guy that I liked and flirted with him right infront of me. (She knew I liked him of course). I wasn't going to bring it up but I finally did after getting advice and her asking me what was wrong. She completley flipped the tables and told me that I was over thinking and that she never said anything mean to me.
She talked to a guy that was taken all year sophomore year, and sent him a picture of her shirt up in the school bathroom. But there was no harm in it, right? No. I constantly reminded her how much it pissed me off, because it was wrong. And I really wanted his girlfriend to know. Eventually she found out and my friend came clean with her, and said she felt bad from keeping it from her.
I can go on and on. She's never wrong, I always am. I overthink too much.
As for her saying that she felt like my therapist, she's doing that to make herself look good to people. I have a really rough past that I don't want to talk about on here, but everything keeps piling up. I only vented to her when I couldn't keep bottling it up. But she complained every single day about how her mom makes her clean her room and it pisses her off etc. Just issuesI would much rather have. She never had anything good to say.
She made fun of me for enjoying the little things. i had recently checked out a new book at the library and I was supet excited to read it. She made fun of me for that. I took pictures of the sunset because I liked the way the colors seemed to just blend the sky. I got made fun of. I complimented the stars, because we don't see them too often due to pollution. Got made fun of. I'm weird. I get excited too easily.
She told my friend "It wasn't an overnight decision. We both saw this coming months ago." She never even talked about anything with me. Everything was normal. She never even brought it up. She also said she tried talking to me about it, she never did. She said we were drifting apart. But we weren't. We go three months without seeing eachother for like the third time in a row, but NOW all of a sudden we are difting apart?
She also said that she is "Opening herself up to people more"? I have no clue what that has to do with me? She is also friends with everyone she talks terrible about.
Something is telling me she is making up all those reasons to hide the actual one. My dad says she is jealous of me? but there really is no reason to be, so it can't be that, right? I'm thinking its becaus eshe is changing into everything she used to make fun of people for, and she knows that I am going to say something and take notice. She thinks im going to judge her.
She keeps talking bad about me to people and I don't know what to do. I already felt out of place as it is at school, but now I feel like everyone is against me. I feel like evrone secretly knows about my past and hates me. I don't know. I hate her having the upper hand, I hate that she is super confident and now I have like 0 confidence. I just don't know what to do.
Sorry, this is long, I just needed to let this out. Any advice?
I asked my friend to talk to her and get some information because I am not going to give her the satisfaction of knowing I'm worried or upset. She told my friend that she felt like she was my therapist, she didn't like that I had a different opinion on things, she didnt like that we were both introverted around each other, (We weren't. We actually are extremely outgoing around one another) Then she said she talked to her parents about it, (They already don't like me because I lost my faith in religion) And they also suggested not being friends with me. Yet, she is still friends with a guy who drinks, smokes, lost his virginity at 13 ( She is really negative when it comes to virginity) , and does cocaine, and she came close to dating him but he dropped her?
She even said she didn't like being ignored because he just completely started ignoring her. Thus causing her to cry and go on a huge rant about how she hates when people just choose to ignore her instead of talking it out.
Let me remind you, that she is extremely hypocritical and filled with double standards.
She makes fun of girls for so many things and called them "hoes" for doing those things, then she goes and does the same thing and laughs it off and pretends she never said it.
She constantly made fun of me. Reminding me how short I am, how I have "Stubby legs", and how she's prettier than me. She talks about how big my breast and butt are? Why?? That is so embarassing. She made fun of me because a group of guy friends called my name and said good morning to me, and said it was "Weird". She called me stupid in front of the guy that I liked and flirted with him right infront of me. (She knew I liked him of course). I wasn't going to bring it up but I finally did after getting advice and her asking me what was wrong. She completley flipped the tables and told me that I was over thinking and that she never said anything mean to me.
She talked to a guy that was taken all year sophomore year, and sent him a picture of her shirt up in the school bathroom. But there was no harm in it, right? No. I constantly reminded her how much it pissed me off, because it was wrong. And I really wanted his girlfriend to know. Eventually she found out and my friend came clean with her, and said she felt bad from keeping it from her.
I can go on and on. She's never wrong, I always am. I overthink too much.
As for her saying that she felt like my therapist, she's doing that to make herself look good to people. I have a really rough past that I don't want to talk about on here, but everything keeps piling up. I only vented to her when I couldn't keep bottling it up. But she complained every single day about how her mom makes her clean her room and it pisses her off etc. Just issuesI would much rather have. She never had anything good to say.
She made fun of me for enjoying the little things. i had recently checked out a new book at the library and I was supet excited to read it. She made fun of me for that. I took pictures of the sunset because I liked the way the colors seemed to just blend the sky. I got made fun of. I complimented the stars, because we don't see them too often due to pollution. Got made fun of. I'm weird. I get excited too easily.
She told my friend "It wasn't an overnight decision. We both saw this coming months ago." She never even talked about anything with me. Everything was normal. She never even brought it up. She also said she tried talking to me about it, she never did. She said we were drifting apart. But we weren't. We go three months without seeing eachother for like the third time in a row, but NOW all of a sudden we are difting apart?
She also said that she is "Opening herself up to people more"? I have no clue what that has to do with me? She is also friends with everyone she talks terrible about.
Something is telling me she is making up all those reasons to hide the actual one. My dad says she is jealous of me? but there really is no reason to be, so it can't be that, right? I'm thinking its becaus eshe is changing into everything she used to make fun of people for, and she knows that I am going to say something and take notice. She thinks im going to judge her.
She keeps talking bad about me to people and I don't know what to do. I already felt out of place as it is at school, but now I feel like everyone is against me. I feel like evrone secretly knows about my past and hates me. I don't know. I hate her having the upper hand, I hate that she is super confident and now I have like 0 confidence. I just don't know what to do.
Sorry, this is long, I just needed to let this out. Any advice?