Great thread! In high school, I definitely felt a ridiculed for my personality type, but I grew up in an uppity, suburban, conservative-minded, competitive, look at the great college i got into i'm captain of my sports team kind of area lol. I'm not really into sports, I tend to care a lot about the way I look, and girls always common on how fashionable I am. I remember my best friend in high school was a very attractive girl, and these douchy kids were calling me gay b/c I haven't "banged her yet." As I got older though, I found people become mature and respect you for who you are. My closest friends tend to be an even mix of guys and girls, with most of the guys more of the sensitive type as well.
The hardest thing for me is getting into a relationship with a girl. I mean, when I find a girl attractive and attempt to flirt, she thinks I'm her best friend. Next thing I know, we're going shopping together, hanging out, and watching movies. I guess I just need to find the right girl that's into an ENFP guy, but I'm starting to get impatient!
Ohh and a little funny anecdote. So I work at a cafe and my assistant manager (kind of a bro lol, awesome guy tho) made a comment about how hot this customer was, like he always does lol. And then I said something like, "Yeah, when a really hot girl comes to order I always get distracted and mess up the order." And he said to me, "Wait, I've never heard you comment on girls before!" And I was like, "Wait, did you think I was gay?!" and he said, "well, you didn't really give me that sense, but for all I talk about hot girls all the time and you just kind of sit there." I told him I'm too respectful. From then on, whenever a hot girl came to the register and he was around, he just said, "Respect!"