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First of all - thank you in advance. Ill try to be short and clear about this.
My mother was typed as an ISFJ and that seemed correct for her but looking more further i am not very sure about her being an Fe user or primarily feeler at all. So ill try to do this form to describe her and u will might tell me what do you think
feel free to comment no matter what and suggest no matter what. Thank you
1) What aspect of your personality made you unsure of your type?
Well ISFJ uses Fe and Ti, ISTJ uses Te and Fi. My mother is pretty much rational and down to earth person, knows what she wants and sticks to her believes. She is very sure of them and likes to say how the best is to be avarage and normal. Also she likes to do things on time - solve the most important parts of the assigment and do the necessary at once.
Why i don't think she is a feeler? Feelings are not smth she understands well and often interprets wrongly the situation, often she feels attacked and doesn't read very well intentions of others. I'm an introverted feeler and she hardly understands why would i go with it and thinks of it as irrational chioce.
She often doesn't show her emotions, telling how no one knows how she feels, and she collects bad moods and can't reveal much to people about them.
She is a giving person but she doesn't seem to be very bright emotionally and has problems understanding the depth of emotions. For her even love sometimes seems to be rational chioce. Grounded decisions are what she does best.
My grandmother is an ESFJ for example and she understands me completely in emotional moments while my mother seems to not get it at all. She tries all right but fails to understands emotional decisions and reactions. whiel Grandmother is exactly the opposite. She is also common sense person but weights more on emotions then my mother.
2) What do you yearn for in life? Why?
Never had big expectations in life, for fame of smth like that. Always aware of where she stands, with two feets both firmly on teh ground, she always did the most practical. She does yearns for general correctness and doing things right, fullfilled obligations.
In general i always thinks he said she wanted and avarage life, usual things.
3) Think about a time where you felt like you were at your finest. Tell us what made you feel that way.
I think it's when she remembers past things. She has the best smiles when remembering. Music also is one of thous things that lifts her spirit up and livign ti through the moment. But she never highlights events - things often seem very "flat" with her.
4) What makes you feel inferior?
I think when someone is trying to run her life for her. She is annoyed by it. Also pushy people messing with her own business.
5) What tends to weigh on your decisions? (Do you think about people, pro-cons, how you feel about it, etc.)
What weights on her the decicions is what is the most standard thing to do. The most solid option. The one that is common sense and makes sense. She is aware fo how she feels about things herself but her decisions are made based on objective facts and the most practical and reasonable option. She stands behind her attitudes firmly and that is all correct for her, firm ground.
6) When working on a project what is normally your emphasis? Do you like to have control of the outcome?
She wants tod o things on time, start right away to finish things so she doesn't have to worry about them. Finish the task and be in peace.
7) Describe us a time where you had a lot of fun. How is your memory of it?
I'm sry to say this - i'm nto saying it for her life now, she was talking about he rlife before. She is not very fun oriented person. She tends to be rather serious and my father often said she always was even when younger.
Her fun is more of a process and it's oriented on some longer period of time. But there was never smth sooo thrilling, again...it all seems so flat with her.
8) When you want to learn something new, what feels more natural for you? (Are you more prone to be hands on, to theorize, to memorize, etc)
To memorize and hands on.
9) How organized do you to think of yourself as?
Very very very organized.
10) How do you judge new ideas? You try to understand the principles behind it to see if they make sense or do you look for information that supports it?
she always questions things, do they make sense whould be the answer.
11) You find harmony by making sure everyone is doing fine and belonging to a given group or by making sure that you follow what you believe and being yourself?
making sure she follows what she believes in and to be herself.
12) Are you the kind that thinks before speaking or do you speak before thinking? Do you prefer one-on-one communication or group discussions?
Think, think, think...then speaks - nto very talkative or loud at all.
13) Do you jump into action right away or do you like to know where are you jumping before leaping? Does action speaks more than words?
Yeah actions speak mro ethen words to her, but she is careful about what she is getting into to.
14) It's Saturday. You're at home, and your favorite show is about to start. Your friends call you for a night out. What will you do?
Depends. But she usually takes facts into consideration, why yes and why not and then decides. She wouldn't midn eather way really.
15) How do you act when you're stressed out?
Paaanic. Snaps out, nervous - seems liek she was gathering emotions for two years and now does the hurricane.
16) What makes you dislike the personalities of some people?
Pretending, silly, not very down to earth, messy, random, not paying attention to rules and regulations, gossiping instead of doing their job. That's what bugs her abotu her colleges at work at least.
17) Is there anything you really like talking about with other people?
she likes to talk about the most usual things actually. The common life, people around her, maybe literature. But it hink it's not abotu subject with her - it's about the person with who she is talking to.
18) What kind of things do pay the least attention to in your life?
unrealistic.
19) How do your friends perceive you? What is wrong about their perception? ? What would your friends never say about your personality ?
I think no one would ever said how firm person she is and it's hardly recognizeable what she is thinking about, nto very epressive so i have no idea.
20) You got a whole day to do whatever you like. What kind of activities do you feel like doing?
Probably walking alone in nature, read and believe it or not she would probably the most willingly decide to go and do smth about obligatiosn she has. Doesn't really lives without them (not even when younger).
My mother was typed as an ISFJ and that seemed correct for her but looking more further i am not very sure about her being an Fe user or primarily feeler at all. So ill try to do this form to describe her and u will might tell me what do you think
feel free to comment no matter what and suggest no matter what. Thank you 1) What aspect of your personality made you unsure of your type?
Well ISFJ uses Fe and Ti, ISTJ uses Te and Fi. My mother is pretty much rational and down to earth person, knows what she wants and sticks to her believes. She is very sure of them and likes to say how the best is to be avarage and normal. Also she likes to do things on time - solve the most important parts of the assigment and do the necessary at once.
Why i don't think she is a feeler? Feelings are not smth she understands well and often interprets wrongly the situation, often she feels attacked and doesn't read very well intentions of others. I'm an introverted feeler and she hardly understands why would i go with it and thinks of it as irrational chioce.
She often doesn't show her emotions, telling how no one knows how she feels, and she collects bad moods and can't reveal much to people about them.
She is a giving person but she doesn't seem to be very bright emotionally and has problems understanding the depth of emotions. For her even love sometimes seems to be rational chioce. Grounded decisions are what she does best.
My grandmother is an ESFJ for example and she understands me completely in emotional moments while my mother seems to not get it at all. She tries all right but fails to understands emotional decisions and reactions. whiel Grandmother is exactly the opposite. She is also common sense person but weights more on emotions then my mother.
2) What do you yearn for in life? Why?
Never had big expectations in life, for fame of smth like that. Always aware of where she stands, with two feets both firmly on teh ground, she always did the most practical. She does yearns for general correctness and doing things right, fullfilled obligations.
In general i always thinks he said she wanted and avarage life, usual things.
3) Think about a time where you felt like you were at your finest. Tell us what made you feel that way.
I think it's when she remembers past things. She has the best smiles when remembering. Music also is one of thous things that lifts her spirit up and livign ti through the moment. But she never highlights events - things often seem very "flat" with her.
4) What makes you feel inferior?
I think when someone is trying to run her life for her. She is annoyed by it. Also pushy people messing with her own business.
5) What tends to weigh on your decisions? (Do you think about people, pro-cons, how you feel about it, etc.)
What weights on her the decicions is what is the most standard thing to do. The most solid option. The one that is common sense and makes sense. She is aware fo how she feels about things herself but her decisions are made based on objective facts and the most practical and reasonable option. She stands behind her attitudes firmly and that is all correct for her, firm ground.
6) When working on a project what is normally your emphasis? Do you like to have control of the outcome?
She wants tod o things on time, start right away to finish things so she doesn't have to worry about them. Finish the task and be in peace.
7) Describe us a time where you had a lot of fun. How is your memory of it?
I'm sry to say this - i'm nto saying it for her life now, she was talking about he rlife before. She is not very fun oriented person. She tends to be rather serious and my father often said she always was even when younger.
Her fun is more of a process and it's oriented on some longer period of time. But there was never smth sooo thrilling, again...it all seems so flat with her.
8) When you want to learn something new, what feels more natural for you? (Are you more prone to be hands on, to theorize, to memorize, etc)
To memorize and hands on.
9) How organized do you to think of yourself as?
Very very very organized.
10) How do you judge new ideas? You try to understand the principles behind it to see if they make sense or do you look for information that supports it?
she always questions things, do they make sense whould be the answer.
11) You find harmony by making sure everyone is doing fine and belonging to a given group or by making sure that you follow what you believe and being yourself?
making sure she follows what she believes in and to be herself.
12) Are you the kind that thinks before speaking or do you speak before thinking? Do you prefer one-on-one communication or group discussions?
Think, think, think...then speaks - nto very talkative or loud at all.
13) Do you jump into action right away or do you like to know where are you jumping before leaping? Does action speaks more than words?
Yeah actions speak mro ethen words to her, but she is careful about what she is getting into to.
14) It's Saturday. You're at home, and your favorite show is about to start. Your friends call you for a night out. What will you do?
Depends. But she usually takes facts into consideration, why yes and why not and then decides. She wouldn't midn eather way really.
15) How do you act when you're stressed out?
Paaanic. Snaps out, nervous - seems liek she was gathering emotions for two years and now does the hurricane.
16) What makes you dislike the personalities of some people?
Pretending, silly, not very down to earth, messy, random, not paying attention to rules and regulations, gossiping instead of doing their job. That's what bugs her abotu her colleges at work at least.
17) Is there anything you really like talking about with other people?
she likes to talk about the most usual things actually. The common life, people around her, maybe literature. But it hink it's not abotu subject with her - it's about the person with who she is talking to.
18) What kind of things do pay the least attention to in your life?
unrealistic.
19) How do your friends perceive you? What is wrong about their perception? ? What would your friends never say about your personality ?
I think no one would ever said how firm person she is and it's hardly recognizeable what she is thinking about, nto very epressive so i have no idea.
20) You got a whole day to do whatever you like. What kind of activities do you feel like doing?
Probably walking alone in nature, read and believe it or not she would probably the most willingly decide to go and do smth about obligatiosn she has. Doesn't really lives without them (not even when younger).
