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Hello everyone,
I've entered another period of questioning my type.
I've been placed in about every type at some point and I would like to have some more opinions on my type.
As a side note my mother is a probable ESFP, as is my sister. My dad however is an ISTJ.
This is basically how I've been typed in the about 2,5 years I've known about MBTI: ISTP -> ENTP -> ISTJ -> ENFP -> INFP -> INTJ -> INFJ
As you see I've been having some issues finding my type, lol.
1) What aspect of your personality made you unsure of your type?
That would be my bluntness at times since I have a high respect for honesty.
My ability to stand my ground when it comes to opinions (can't do it wen I'm alone however, then I just talk like a lawyer, but a little more startled kind of look :frustrating
2) What do you yearn for in life? Why?
I've never really yearned for anything to be honest, most of my goals in life has been because of the effect I've thought it would have on the people I care about.
Other than that I just seek being able to feel some joy and comfort in my life :/
3) Think about a time where you felt like you were at your finest. Tell us what made you feel that way.
Don't have any specific memory, but I always get happy when I learn something new.
4) What makes you feel inferior?
People not listening to what I'm trying to say, especially when I know I'm right.
5) What tends to weigh on your decisions? (Do you think about people, pro-cons, how you feel about it, etc.)
First I ask people close to me if it's a hard decision (or at least express what I'm thinking about doing)
Then I consider if I think it's "right" to do it
Then I think of what might be the consequence of the decision. (this is kinda a "lol" since I delude myself 90% of the time by thinking it will end better than it actually does)
6) When working on a project what is normally your emphasis? Do you like to have control of the outcome?
Yea, I like to feel as if I've been a part of it rather than to have been sitting on the side-lines.
I like to be able to make people follow how I think things should be done.
7) Describe to us a time when you had a lot of fun. How is your memory of it?
Usually the times when I've had a lot of fun has been when I've spent time with friends, I'm very demanding that way, since "long" times (that could be like an hour, lol) without my "buddies" (call them that because I don't trust them enough to call them friends) and friends can make me really anxious (I am very picky about my friends and only allow myself to call the people that are truly loyal to me "friends").
Since I don't see any opposite of this I'll add a 7b.
7b) Describe to us a time when you didn't have fun. How is your memory of it?
That would be every time my family has taken me to do any physical activity, but especially when they've taken me to an "amusement park", I can't handle the roller-coaster and stuff (might be because I'm near-sighted), last time I was on one I almost started crying of panic.
8) When you want to learn something new, what feels more natural for you? (Are you more prone to be hands on, to theorize, to memorize, etc)
I like to have conversations about it, things only really stick if I talk about it.
9) How organized do you to think of yourself as?
Not so much atm. but I'm a teenager, lol
I was extremely organized when I was younger.
might not have anything to do with it, but I always walk around with a backpack so I always got everything I need in one place.
My lockers in school has been nominated the cleanest locker by some of my buddies and friends at times. :laughing:
10) How do you judge new ideas? You try to understand the principles behind it to see if they make sense or do you look for information that supports it?
If it goes against what I think then I don't really even listen to what they have to say, otherwise I might listen and discuss and if they can answer my questions, then I start to assimilate the information that has been given to me.
11) You find harmony by making sure everyone is doing fine and belonging to a given group or by making sure that you follow what you believe and being yourself?
I think I find harmony when I can speak my mind without being questioned, especially without being questioned be people close to me.
12a) Are you the kind that thinks before speaking or do you speak before thinking?
first I want to say ouch, lol
anyways, I usually start by speaking crap, then the more I talk and the more feedback I get, the more "intelligent" I sound to people (I think, lol)
or maybe it's just that I start walking my opinion towards theirs until they stop complaining. :laughing:
12b)Do you prefer one-on-one communication or group discussions?
Both work just as well for me.
Irrational conversations = 1-on-1
Rational conversations = 1-on-1 or group.
I was once irrational in a group discussion, then I was on the verge of crying :/
13) Do you jump into action right away or do you like to know where are you jumping before leaping? Does action speaks more than words?
Words are slippery and can lie, an action is an action and it can never lie.
So yea, I like action rather than words.
(that's also a part of why I'm still single, lol, since I show how my I care about people in actions, rather than to spell it out for them)
14) It's Saturday. You're at home, and your favorite show is about to start. Your friends call you for a night out. What will you do?
1. I come up with an excuse for not being able to come.
2. I say bluntly that I won't because my favorite show is about to start.
3. My friends would know that I don't like having "nights out" (this is for security reasons, I'm very concerned with my personal security and the security of people close to me).
15) How do you act when you're stressed out?
I can have shout outs, but I can also be highly effective if it has to do with work/assignments.
16) What makes you dislike the personalities of some people?
Them being disloyal to me.
Being pushy to me.
Trying to make me "enjoy a long day away from home".
People that are party fanatics.
People that gives manipulative orders, like my ESFP mom usually says "I really love you... could you help me in the garden?" and if I say no it's a "HELP ME IN THE GARDEN, NOW!" kind of reaction.
17) Is there anything you really like talking about with other people?
Myself :kitteh:
I also like intellectual conversations.
18) What kind of things do pay the least attention to in your life
Hygiene and eating a variation of foods? LOL.
No, I'm serious awful at remembering to take a shower and I can eat the same thing everyday without getting tired of it.
19a) How do your friends perceive you?
They call me extremely loyal, sometimes they think I'm rude, blunt and other things like that. I've been called "incredibly passive-aggressive" quite a few times.
19b) What is wrong about their perception?
Nothing, that's just about what I think as well.
19c) What would your friends never say about your personality ?
I think that would be disloyal.
20) You got a whole day to do whatever you like. What kind of activities do you feel like doing?
uhm, I'd sit in-front of my computer an play games with my buddies and friends.
21) other things:
I have intensive emotions and I can go from calm to doing a shout out in a short moment. :crazy:
When I tell something from my personal history I tend to miss the prologue of events and jump directly to the most intensive parts of the events, which can make me look like an overemotional prick. :frustrating:
When I repeat something that someone has said, I don't repeat it word-by-word, but rather by what my understanding was but what they had said.
I usually express myself (especially when I write) as a cocky person, when I got good intentions. (this is usually because I skip explaining the entire thing, but rather just at the specific task at hand).
People get annoyed because I speak and write with a cliffhanger style, never explaining things entirely. Like this:
Me: I need some help
Person: With?
Me: A thing.
Person: What thing?
Me: A thing... c'mon are you gonna help or not?
I've entered another period of questioning my type.
I've been placed in about every type at some point and I would like to have some more opinions on my type.
As a side note my mother is a probable ESFP, as is my sister. My dad however is an ISTJ.
This is basically how I've been typed in the about 2,5 years I've known about MBTI: ISTP -> ENTP -> ISTJ -> ENFP -> INFP -> INTJ -> INFJ
As you see I've been having some issues finding my type, lol.
1) What aspect of your personality made you unsure of your type?
That would be my bluntness at times since I have a high respect for honesty.
My ability to stand my ground when it comes to opinions (can't do it wen I'm alone however, then I just talk like a lawyer, but a little more startled kind of look :frustrating
2) What do you yearn for in life? Why?
I've never really yearned for anything to be honest, most of my goals in life has been because of the effect I've thought it would have on the people I care about.
Other than that I just seek being able to feel some joy and comfort in my life :/
3) Think about a time where you felt like you were at your finest. Tell us what made you feel that way.
Don't have any specific memory, but I always get happy when I learn something new.
4) What makes you feel inferior?
People not listening to what I'm trying to say, especially when I know I'm right.
5) What tends to weigh on your decisions? (Do you think about people, pro-cons, how you feel about it, etc.)
First I ask people close to me if it's a hard decision (or at least express what I'm thinking about doing)
Then I consider if I think it's "right" to do it
Then I think of what might be the consequence of the decision. (this is kinda a "lol" since I delude myself 90% of the time by thinking it will end better than it actually does)
6) When working on a project what is normally your emphasis? Do you like to have control of the outcome?
Yea, I like to feel as if I've been a part of it rather than to have been sitting on the side-lines.
I like to be able to make people follow how I think things should be done.
7) Describe to us a time when you had a lot of fun. How is your memory of it?
Usually the times when I've had a lot of fun has been when I've spent time with friends, I'm very demanding that way, since "long" times (that could be like an hour, lol) without my "buddies" (call them that because I don't trust them enough to call them friends) and friends can make me really anxious (I am very picky about my friends and only allow myself to call the people that are truly loyal to me "friends").
Since I don't see any opposite of this I'll add a 7b.
7b) Describe to us a time when you didn't have fun. How is your memory of it?
That would be every time my family has taken me to do any physical activity, but especially when they've taken me to an "amusement park", I can't handle the roller-coaster and stuff (might be because I'm near-sighted), last time I was on one I almost started crying of panic.
8) When you want to learn something new, what feels more natural for you? (Are you more prone to be hands on, to theorize, to memorize, etc)
I like to have conversations about it, things only really stick if I talk about it.
9) How organized do you to think of yourself as?
Not so much atm. but I'm a teenager, lol
I was extremely organized when I was younger.
might not have anything to do with it, but I always walk around with a backpack so I always got everything I need in one place.
My lockers in school has been nominated the cleanest locker by some of my buddies and friends at times. :laughing:
10) How do you judge new ideas? You try to understand the principles behind it to see if they make sense or do you look for information that supports it?
If it goes against what I think then I don't really even listen to what they have to say, otherwise I might listen and discuss and if they can answer my questions, then I start to assimilate the information that has been given to me.
11) You find harmony by making sure everyone is doing fine and belonging to a given group or by making sure that you follow what you believe and being yourself?
I think I find harmony when I can speak my mind without being questioned, especially without being questioned be people close to me.
12a) Are you the kind that thinks before speaking or do you speak before thinking?
first I want to say ouch, lol
anyways, I usually start by speaking crap, then the more I talk and the more feedback I get, the more "intelligent" I sound to people (I think, lol)
or maybe it's just that I start walking my opinion towards theirs until they stop complaining. :laughing:
12b)Do you prefer one-on-one communication or group discussions?
Both work just as well for me.
Irrational conversations = 1-on-1
Rational conversations = 1-on-1 or group.
I was once irrational in a group discussion, then I was on the verge of crying :/
13) Do you jump into action right away or do you like to know where are you jumping before leaping? Does action speaks more than words?
Words are slippery and can lie, an action is an action and it can never lie.
So yea, I like action rather than words.
(that's also a part of why I'm still single, lol, since I show how my I care about people in actions, rather than to spell it out for them)
14) It's Saturday. You're at home, and your favorite show is about to start. Your friends call you for a night out. What will you do?
1. I come up with an excuse for not being able to come.
2. I say bluntly that I won't because my favorite show is about to start.
3. My friends would know that I don't like having "nights out" (this is for security reasons, I'm very concerned with my personal security and the security of people close to me).
15) How do you act when you're stressed out?
I can have shout outs, but I can also be highly effective if it has to do with work/assignments.
16) What makes you dislike the personalities of some people?
Them being disloyal to me.
Being pushy to me.
Trying to make me "enjoy a long day away from home".
People that are party fanatics.
People that gives manipulative orders, like my ESFP mom usually says "I really love you... could you help me in the garden?" and if I say no it's a "HELP ME IN THE GARDEN, NOW!" kind of reaction.
17) Is there anything you really like talking about with other people?
Myself :kitteh:
I also like intellectual conversations.
18) What kind of things do pay the least attention to in your life
Hygiene and eating a variation of foods? LOL.
No, I'm serious awful at remembering to take a shower and I can eat the same thing everyday without getting tired of it.
19a) How do your friends perceive you?
They call me extremely loyal, sometimes they think I'm rude, blunt and other things like that. I've been called "incredibly passive-aggressive" quite a few times.
19b) What is wrong about their perception?
Nothing, that's just about what I think as well.
19c) What would your friends never say about your personality ?
I think that would be disloyal.
20) You got a whole day to do whatever you like. What kind of activities do you feel like doing?
uhm, I'd sit in-front of my computer an play games with my buddies and friends.
21) other things:
I have intensive emotions and I can go from calm to doing a shout out in a short moment. :crazy:
When I tell something from my personal history I tend to miss the prologue of events and jump directly to the most intensive parts of the events, which can make me look like an overemotional prick. :frustrating:
When I repeat something that someone has said, I don't repeat it word-by-word, but rather by what my understanding was but what they had said.
I usually express myself (especially when I write) as a cocky person, when I got good intentions. (this is usually because I skip explaining the entire thing, but rather just at the specific task at hand).
People get annoyed because I speak and write with a cliffhanger style, never explaining things entirely. Like this:
Me: I need some help
Person: With?
Me: A thing.
Person: What thing?
Me: A thing... c'mon are you gonna help or not?