Assuming that the ENFP is one of the most ideal partners for the INFJ, I was wondering how the scenarios would look like when Ne and Ni would be in harmony and how it would look like when they're not. Next to that, the cognitive functions of both archetypes are opposites of eachother. What are your experiences? At the moment I'm confronted with a dark ENFP who has been madly in love with me for 4/5 years, but I friendzoned her big time (unconsciously, my Fe-functions are far out of reach when it comes to love.. ). We only seem to be able to have a conversation without any frustrations when it's about an intellectual piece or idea far away from our personal environment, but most of the time it comes down to the ENFP feeding up all the people we both care about with bad lies about the INFJ as the idiotic martyer and the INFJ responding to the people as the wise self-reflecting INFJ who makes them realize the ENFP is nothing else than a lying psychotic piece of garbage. The intense contact I had with that particular ENFP weren't romantic (Never felt anything for her in a romantic sense), but I still can't deny that it was intellectual in a quirky sense and a fun piece of worldly art.