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My personality type is is ESTJ and i am compatible with ESTJ .What I am trying to figure out is, what characteritics in a man are the following personality types ( women) attracted to. I would like to try and develop these characteristics and try to be what is attractive to them.

Ladies, it would be great if you could provide me with some input on this, id love some female opinions especially if you are of the personality types that i mentioned above


i would like the female perspective
 

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hmmmm well perosonally, just because I spend so much time with myself (like everyday ;)) I tend to not be attracted to my same type because well I like have something different. BUT I can definitely give you some qualities I know that people are attracted to that ESTJ's are especially good at.

Doing little things for people to show that we care, like making them dinner, or making sure that they're comfortable and included, little things like that.
People usually love if we initiate conversation, and are really super friendly with everyone. Believe me a smile can go a long way. It shows our energetic extroverted side, and shows that we can carry a good conversation and make people laugh.
We tend to be pretty confident (which is a really attractive quality) so show that you are in the things that you do, but without seeming conceited of course.
I also personally ask people a lot of interesting questions about themselves to show that i'm interested and to see if we have anything common. Like favorite color, food, etc.
Also, standing up for what you believe in is very attractive, and standing up for the people you care about. Plus it allows people to notice you.
Not to mention we usually are good with looks, so dress nicely and then walk with great confidence.
Plan something super fun to do with people to get to know them better. Like invite them to a movie, or plan a party or go to a game or something.

Mostly people love how loyal and caring we are. But the only way they'll ever know that is if they notice us. So show off your confident side and your humorous side. Show that you aren't afraid to say whatever pops into your head (unless of course its offensive). People often like that I'm the one who will say the thing that nobody else would, it makes it easier to talk to me, if i share that.

Note: Make sure not to seem to controlling, bossy, conservative, unchangable, cocky, black and white, or unwilling to listen to others, or unwilling to admit that you are wrong.
 

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Are you sure you want a female ESTJ?

I don't know if that's a good idea.... :confused:
 
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