I have recently had a setback at work. I am being moved less than 2 months into the new school year because I am not fitting in my new setting. My supervisor told me that I am not confident enough, I hang back a lot, and don't make eye contact or speak up enough in my meetings. This has hurt me so deeply I feel physically sick, I can't sleep or eat. I am doing my best to move past it and make the best of the situation. But I can't change who I am or can I? Has anyone ever tried to change their personality to fit in better at work or get a job? Before I got this job I had a hard time getting hired. I went on so many interviews and I never got the job even though I am very qualified. I wonder if it is my personality and if people don't like me because of my personality traits. I wish I wasn't like this, I have tried to change, but I'm afraid I can't really change that much. Anyone have any advice for me?