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I find that when I meet someone, I really like to get inside of them and see what makes them tick. I think of it as "cracking people open". I really like to do this and it is not hard for me usually.
I really only have one experience when someone wouldn't let me do this. It was my taxi cab driver. He did not let me get to his core. He was listening to a football game in his earpiece or something when he was driving and he just wouldn't budge. I was dumbfounded. Lol. It really frustrated me. My boyfriend at the time was in the cab with me and laughing at me. This man would not indulge in conversation. Time was working against me as we were only traveling a couple of miles. Our destination was quickly approaching. Yet, I was taking this man's indifference like a slap in the face. I remember saying things like "But you don't seem to understand. Everyone talks to me. Everyone likes talking to me." Hahaha. This is like the only time I can think of where I hit a wall. So I had to use ridiculous behavior and say ridiculous things in return.
But usually it is really easy for me to crack people open. I don't have to tap too hard and everything usually just spills out from them. Many times I don't even need to tap. They just freely spill.
I love figuring out people so I can tell what they may need to hear in order to make their lives more balanced. It's not a good day when people like Mr. Taxi don't open up. Haha. :crazy: I mean, how am I going to leave them with specially tailored words of inspiration if they won't open? People like closed-core-taxi-cab-drivers frustrate my mission on this planet. :frustrating:
Do any of you feel like you need to get to the center of people? Do you need to get to their cores?
I really only have one experience when someone wouldn't let me do this. It was my taxi cab driver. He did not let me get to his core. He was listening to a football game in his earpiece or something when he was driving and he just wouldn't budge. I was dumbfounded. Lol. It really frustrated me. My boyfriend at the time was in the cab with me and laughing at me. This man would not indulge in conversation. Time was working against me as we were only traveling a couple of miles. Our destination was quickly approaching. Yet, I was taking this man's indifference like a slap in the face. I remember saying things like "But you don't seem to understand. Everyone talks to me. Everyone likes talking to me." Hahaha. This is like the only time I can think of where I hit a wall. So I had to use ridiculous behavior and say ridiculous things in return.
But usually it is really easy for me to crack people open. I don't have to tap too hard and everything usually just spills out from them. Many times I don't even need to tap. They just freely spill.
I love figuring out people so I can tell what they may need to hear in order to make their lives more balanced. It's not a good day when people like Mr. Taxi don't open up. Haha. :crazy: I mean, how am I going to leave them with specially tailored words of inspiration if they won't open? People like closed-core-taxi-cab-drivers frustrate my mission on this planet. :frustrating:
Do any of you feel like you need to get to the center of people? Do you need to get to their cores?