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Well, today I started a new plan : im going to try again to be with my istp.
for this, I;
*stopped expecting him to call me, ill do the calling
*im letting go on ideas of comitment, marriage or future: ill live the right now and today and nooot put anny pressure in him, for ive been missing him too much for the last 4 years, whatever i get, thats what i get, a day at a time.
*instead of trying to make him cope with his extremelly traditional family, ill understand how this can be very sufocating to him and support him , even if it takes being against them.
and the ultimate harder, im going against all my values and I am calling him despite the fact i know he has a girlfriend, the one who took him away from me 4 years ago. Im thinking of it as taking back what was originally mine.
it started today and im going to be doing this with a certain regularity. we spent 15 minutes on the phone.
any ideas, sugestions, am i right, am i wrong??
HEELP istp people, pliz! I think i may sound a little desperate, but thats because its exactly what i am.
thanks
for this, I;
*stopped expecting him to call me, ill do the calling
*im letting go on ideas of comitment, marriage or future: ill live the right now and today and nooot put anny pressure in him, for ive been missing him too much for the last 4 years, whatever i get, thats what i get, a day at a time.
*instead of trying to make him cope with his extremelly traditional family, ill understand how this can be very sufocating to him and support him , even if it takes being against them.
and the ultimate harder, im going against all my values and I am calling him despite the fact i know he has a girlfriend, the one who took him away from me 4 years ago. Im thinking of it as taking back what was originally mine.
it started today and im going to be doing this with a certain regularity. we spent 15 minutes on the phone.
any ideas, sugestions, am i right, am i wrong??
HEELP istp people, pliz! I think i may sound a little desperate, but thats because its exactly what i am.
thanks