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Hi- I'm a new ENFJ- However I've been testing as INFJ for a long time because I was suffering from depression. As a kid I was bright and happy and naive and people loving and energetic. But when I got older I learned about the world and what people were erally like and how evil people and governments and just everything could be. I sunk into major depression. But about a month ago I talked myself out of it and now I am happier than ever, back to being the bright and energetic and hopeful kid I was with motivation and meaning in my life. I used to be a go getter before I sunk into depression, after I was a give upper. I had no purpous in life, no goals. I didnt even care if I lived or died.
But now I am back to the way I was as a kid and I AM HAPPY!!! ENFJ description fits me to the T as well, and I heard Jesus was an ENFJ! (I'm in love with Jesus)



ENFjs often have slim arms, legs and torso. ( i would say I'm more athletic)
They look rather slow and relaxed, especially among friends. However, there are ENFjs that are very nimble but they tend to suffer from a lack of co-ordination, giving the impression that they do it deliberately. (Yep) ENFjs often have big, straight, sharp noses. (lol! Yep) Their eyes usually have a melancholy look about them and at the same time have that obsessed shine that shows a great emotional charge. (Yep)

ENFjs usually hold their heads up straight, often giving the impression that they are looking above the heads of others. (Yep) This can lead others to believe that ENFjs are arrogant people. ENFjs clothes are usually badly matched.( Nope) There is often one particular detail that catches the eye and is completely out of place with the rest. They are well aware of this and therefore pay close attention to their wardrobe and are suspicious of any outside evaluation.

ENFjs enjoy the company of people who give off plenty of positive emotions. They like and in fact need to laugh in order to discharge the emotional energy that accumulates within.(YEP) Their own emotions are of a dramatic nature, which they try hard to control. Sometimes, however, ENFjs can unexpectedly explode attracting unwanted attention to themselves. (Yep)

ENFjs always warn others about impending trouble. They often dramatise reality a little too much as they seem to see the world in shades of grey. (lol, yeah) When interacting, they are sometimes parasitic and intrusive with their opinions and comments. (yeah) ENFjs often express their true opinions during conversation as they find it difficult to keep them to themselves. They will often talk to themselves even if there are many people around.(yep)

ENFjs posses the ability to be great orators as they know how to paint speeches in many colours and how to keep the attention of the listener. Besides containing dramatic emotions, their speeches often contain sharp sarcasm and powerful bitterness. ENFjs know well how to combine humour with tragedy. As a result their narratives are always breathtaking.(yeah)

ENFjs are inclined to trust only official published information. However they like gossip and discussing the details of peoples private lives, especially famous people, movie stars etc. ENFjs like to fantasise, often developing the same subject over a period of time. ( yes)They also have the ability to persuade others that their opinions are right. (teehee, dont want anyone knowing that) Their completed projects are global in comparison to what they were when they were began. (yup) They have also tendency to create problems where there are not any and moreover to convince others of it.( mmm, not really)

ENFjs respect hierarchy and relate to people accordingly. If a person is in a lower position, their interaction can be cold and disrespectful. However, their behaviour towards someone in a higher position than themselves will be tactful and humble. They believe in the concept of leadership and leaders. ENFjs also have tendency to behave aristocratically. They can give the impression that they are from noble families. At the same time they are very polite and correct. (nope, nope. I judge people individually, not according to status. I treat high class people and rich people same as low class poor people, but both with politeness and honesty and friendliness)

ENFjs do not like to work if someone is there, observing them. They really do not like others to see how they manage their homes and day to day matters. Because of this they often send other people on missions with various instructions in order to get rid of them so they can work comfortably. (lol, yeah)

ENFjs have no problems undertaking very difficult tasks and projects or working long unsociable hours. ENFjs strongly believe that human potential is unlimited. They often believe in a wide range of mystical phenomena, religion, the evil-eye and omens. They like to spend some time alone in order to contemplate life and the role of humans. "To be or not to be" is a question that ENFjs may ask themselves regularly. (mmhmm)

So yeah, I'm an ENFJ. What things do we have in common I wonder?
PS. I spelled formerly wrong, I know. No need to point it out.
 

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Heh. Depressed ENFJ = Mistyped INFJ.

Sounds familiar.

I knew you'd figure out your type eventually. I think it's been like 6 months since your thread where I suggested that you might be an ENFJ.

Nice to see you here :)
 

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Glad you figured out your type :) I myself had mistyped as an INFJ until it was politely pointed out that I might not be :D Looking forward to your posts around the ENFJ section
 

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I just switched over to ENFJ aswell and i can relate to some of your list quite well.

It was werid just feeling so out of place in some of the other sections, an Interesting evolution i suppose!
 

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ENFjs do not like to work if someone is there, observing them. They really do not like others to see how they manage their homes and day to day matters. Because of this they often send other people on missions with various instructions in order to get rid of them so they can work comfortably. (lol, yeah)

ENFjs have no problems undertaking very difficult tasks and projects or working long unsociable hours. ENFjs strongly believe that human potential is unlimited. They often believe in a wide range of mystical phenomena, religion, the evil-eye and omens. They like to spend some time alone in order to contemplate life and the role of humans. "To be or not to be" is a question that ENFjs may ask themselves regularly. (mmhmm)


OMG how is this so scary accurate?!!!! Did you compile this from random sites?
 
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