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0. Is there anything that may affect the way you answer the questions? For example, a stressful time, mental illness, medications, special life circumstances? Other useful information includes sex, age, and current state of mind.

male, 18, right now im tired, but well, im always tired.


1. Click on this link: Flickr: Explore! Look at the random photo for about 30 seconds. Copy and paste it here, and write about your impression of it.

the picture is a kid who is standing outside of a room, with a door half open, and he holds a candle and his blanket, i cant post the picture :/ but here is what i infer from this picture:

for some reason this picture captured my interest, when i watch this kid with his candle and his blanket, with the door half open, im thinking about kids who still doesn't know how the world works, but, like any other human beings, they grow up, i think that the door half open symbolizes the uncertainty and the fear that most teenagers have when they become adults, almost know nothing about the world. they still have their parents and friends ( the candle and the blanket ) which will always support them. but, someday, theyll need to enter the room ( which is life ) alone, and start their real life.

2. You are with a group of people in a car, heading to a different town to see your favourite band/artist/musician. Suddenly, the car breaks down for an unknown reason in the middle of nowhere. What are your initial thoughts? What are your outward reactions?

first, i will be pissed and i will be thinking to myself: " why it always happens to me? " and then ill try to find a way to solve the problem. and if i wont be able to fix the car or they wont be able to, ill probably call a cab for me and the other people , there is no way im going to miss this :laughing:

3. You somehow make it to the concert. The driver wants to go to the afterparty that was announced (and assure you they won't drink so they can drive back later). How do you feel about this party? What do you do?

i dont like parties, ill probably try telling him that parties are not my cup of tea, and if that doesn't work, just like i did before, ill call a cab to pick me up. But, if the driver is one of my closest friends, ill probably go to the party with him, its not that bad if your friends beside you.

4. On the drive back, your friends are talking. A friend makes a claim that clashes with your current beliefs. What is your inward reaction? What do you outwardly say?

ill try to convince him why he is wrong and we will probably debate about this, i will be angry at first, but if he makes some good points, i will be able to understand him and his views.

5. What would you do if you actually saw/experienced something that clashes with your previous beliefs, experiences, and habits?

if they are previous believes, i think i wouldn't really care much. if they are previous, i think there is a good reason why i stop believing/doing them.

6. What are some of your most important values? How did you come about determining them? How can they change?

A. Value Of Life - i believe that every life is important, no matter who you are, where you came from or background ( even shady ones ) - i still believe that everyone has the right to live and people doesn't have any right to take life away from others. I won't change this value, this is basically my strongest value. I came to this conclusion because i just felt that this is the right thing, i think that life is the most important thing in the world.

B. Value Of Friendship - friends for me are like family, i'll never abandon them, i'll never try to hurt them physically or mentally, i will always care about their well being and more. when i see people abandon their friends or hurting them/using them, it makes me angry and i feel sad for those people. just like the first value, i will never change this value also, and as for how i determinited this value.. my friends are the only ones who i can feel comfortable with in real life and they accept me for who i am, and this is enough for me to determine this value as important


7. a) What about your personality most distinguishes you from everyone else? b) If you could change one thing about you personality, what would it be? Why?

im quiet, when people approach me i can act normal and everything, but most of the time im alone or not talking to other people unless im with my friends or really need something ( like knowing what time it is for example ). another thing is when im alone i sometimes talk to myself and even talks in second person and third person, like im talking to other people who are not even there ( im not mental, and i also doing it on my native language, only sometimes in English ). im also dreamy and imaginative, sometimes when i feel sad or mad about something, i write poems, and im almost always thinking about things that are not necessarily realistic ( even though some of them are, but most of them aren't ) . If i could change one thing about my personality, i would like to be less envy of others, less competitive and lazy, because it really frustrating me.

8. How do you treat hunches or gut feelings? In what situations are they most often triggered?

i think i treat gut feelings and hunches neutrally, sometimes i listen to them, and sometimes i dont. when i watch TV or play a story based game, sometimes the gut feelings are triggered and i base my decisions on the feelings i got from them ( for example: in the TWD game series, in episode 2, i had the feeling that the brothers were shady since the beginning ) .

9. a) What activities energize you most? b) What activities drain you most? Why?

i dont know what energize really means, but if the meaning is " what is your favorite activities? " type of question, i would probably go with video games, listening to music and hanging out with my close friends. the activities i hate the most always involves work. school ( yes, gentleman, im this young ), job, going out ( im more of a home person ) and etc'.

10. What do you repress about your outward behavior or internal thought process when around others? Why?

my serious and sometimes even sad nature. when im around my friends i will always be the funny clown around them who makes puns, jokes, cynical comments and even dark humor. but, when im not around them, when im alone at home, i tend to feel sad and wasted and far more serious than me around my friends, i think its about my self esteem, but i dont want to infer things only from this feelings.

also, sorry for my bad english, like i said its not my native language and im trying to improve it, i hope it was atleast understandable.

thank you.
 

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also, i forgot to mention something :

most of the times i test as INFP, INTP and INTJ, just for your information.

and in Enneagram it seems i am type 4w5..

i would appreciate any help.
 

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INFP sound the closest. There were some probable inferior Te that I saw so that just solidifies my guess.
thank you, i appreciate it. :happy:
 

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That statement alone screams Fi-dominant, i.e., INFP or ISFP.

i can't really relate to S. i am realistic but im also very imaginitive and interested in ideas more than just facts.


one thing that i want to mention : when im arguing with someone about politics, theories or values i will always try to bring up facts ( ironically ) from sources and i wouldn't really care much about their feelings. for me, in an argument, truth is far more important than people's feelings.


so yeah, im really confused, i think INFP suits more than ISFP, but i still dont know if it's really my type. i would like to see another comments from you and another people, it will help to determine what is my type.
 

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i can't really relate to S. i am realistic but im also very imaginitive and interested in ideas more than just facts.


one thing that i want to mention : when im arguing with someone about politics, theories or values i will always try to bring up facts ( ironically ) from sources and i wouldn't really care much about their feelings. for me, in an argument, truth is far more important than people's feelings.


so yeah, im really confused, i think INFP suits more than ISFP, but i still dont know if it's really my type. i would like to see another comments from you and another people, it will help to determine what is my type.


sorry for the double, but for some reason i cant edit.


i came to the conclusion im probably INFP, but im still open for other people opinions.
 
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