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I agree with @series0 . Even if you have a quiet manner and don't want to buy new clothes, etc., you can make yourself more visible.

I went to a dance sat down like everyone else. No one asked me to dance. So I stood up, closer to the dance floor. Soon someone came and asked me to dance. We ended up getting married.

Or wear red.
 

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Why would I have problems with this notcion?
Because you seem to ask the same basic question repeatedly without really drawing any conclusions. You can't find anyone to date, you can't find anyone to have sex with, and you appear to want to get pregnant. You just keep presenting problems but never discuss any of the solutions posters have provided. Granted, some of them aren't very good, but some of them are quite honest and forthwith. You may need to talk to a friend or mental health professional. They may be able to help you.
 

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There鈥檚 a time and place for everything. A time to scatter stones and a time to gather stones. A time to embrace and a time to turn away. A time to search and a time to quit searching. A time to keep and a time to throw away. A time to tear and a time to mend. A time to be quiet and a time to speak.

Everything becomes beautiful in due time. You will find a man that desires you as long as you make yourself visible, but you must put in the effort to be seen.
 

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Because you seem to ask the same basic question repeatedly without really drawing any conclusions. You can't find anyone to date, you can't find anyone to have sex with, and you appear to want to get pregnant. You just keep presenting problems but never discuss any of the solutions posters have provided. Granted, some of them aren't very good, but some of them are quite honest and forthwith. You may need to talk to a friend or mental health professional. They may be able to help you.
There is no such thing as not being able to find someone to date or to have sex with because it seems like everyone finds someone to date and have sex with.
 

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There鈥檚 a time and place for everything. A time to scatter stones and a time to gather stones. A time to embrace and a time to turn away. A time to search and a time to quit searching. A time to keep and a time to throw away. A time to tear and a time to mend. A time to be quiet and a time to speak.

Everything becomes beautiful in due time. You will find a man that desires you as long as you make yourself visible, but you must put in the effort to be seen.
A lot of these other women are not visable and they still find guys.
 

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I agree with @series0 . Even if you have a quiet manner and don't want to buy new clothes, etc., you can make yourself more visible.

I went to a dance sat down like everyone else. No one asked me to dance. So I stood up, closer to the dance floor. Soon someone came and asked me to dance. We ended up getting married.

Or wear red.
I think some escort agencies do std testing. Not sure though. Not my area.
I think some escort agencies do std testing. Not sure though. Not my area.
I shouldn't waste my money on that
 

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There is no such thing as not being able to find someone to date or to have sex with because it seems like everyone finds someone to date and have sex with.
So what's your story? What makes you feel like you're being left out? How would you like us to help you? What can we do for you that you cannot do for yourself?
 

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I agree with @series0 . Even if you have a quiet manner and don't want to buy new clothes, etc., you can make yourself more visible.

I went to a dance sat down like everyone else. No one asked me to dance. So I stood up, closer to the dance floor. Soon someone came and asked me to dance. We ended up getting married.

Or wear red.
It's hilarious, but the quiet reserved type is actually WHAT IS WANTED by many. It takes extroverts a LONG TIME to understand that introverts are often wise opposites to them. They toy with seemingly endless amounts of other extroverts before they start walking over to the quiet ones and adding their energy where it is needed and even wanted. Other extroverts are actually more likely competitors in most cases.
 

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It's hilarious, but the quiet reserved type is actually WHAT IS WANTED by many. It takes extroverts a LONG TIME to understand that introverts are often wise opposites to them. They toy with seemingly endless amounts of other extroverts before they start walking over to the quiet ones and adding their energy where it is needed and even wanted. Other extroverts are actually more likely competitors in most cases.
My best relationships have always been with introverts.
 

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It's hilarious, but the quiet reserved type is actually WHAT IS WANTED by many. It takes extroverts a LONG TIME to understand that introverts are often wise opposites to them. They toy with seemingly endless amounts of other extroverts before they start walking over to the quiet ones and adding their energy where it is needed and even wanted. Other extroverts are actually more likely competitors in most cases.
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This doesn't have to do with me question.
 
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