do you guys relate to this? i've had times where i found myself in confrontational situations, and I stupidly decided not to stand up for myself. i dont know if this was a conscious decision though... i think i instinctively became focused on creating harmony/alleviating the negative emotions, which basically ended up with me stepping over my own self to do so. and years later in life, i remember this, and i start feeling like an idiot, thinking "UH WHY did you do that.....?" =( i had a crappy day today so that's one of the issues that came up. and i guess i get upset about this because i feel like i never got to stand up for myself or have others my side of the story. and then i feel more crappy..