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okay, guys...
The thread is mainly about my heart fix and instinctual stacking, but any feedback on what I could be is appreciated.
As far as I understand, the heart fix is how I deal with my image and shame. I'm not naturally in touch with either: I do pretty much what I want and I hardly ever care how I am seen - and I'm quite shameless as well. Almost always I'm disconnected from that part of me; I don't really "feel" emotions, I tend to process them through the lens of logic (of course, I can be irrational, but this is an exception rather than a rule). Hey, I don't even know what to ask myself in order to determine the heart fix
I'm sure 2 is not my heart fix. At first I dismissed a possibility of having 3 fix, but now I realise there's more Three in me than I previously thought. I'm not sure, though, if it's a matter of 3 fix, 4w3 fix, or just a side effect of mistaking my 7 traits for 3 traits. Moreover, if my tritype was 378, I'd be triple assertive - and I don't think I am.
4 is still a possibility, the most likely one, although I'm undecided between 4w3 and 4w5. I can relate a bit more to 4w5 descriptions, FWIW, but since I'm definitely not a core Four, it's kind of hard to decide. I'm fascinated by Fours, but mostly because their attitude is completely different from mine.
My instincts, then: no doubt the social instinct is my last. At first I thought I'm sp/sx, now I'm considering the possibility of sx/sp. While I need independence like I need air, I can't really relate to wanting comfort, material security, a long-term relationship and /or family (and these appear frequently in various descriptions of self-pres instinct). Quite the contrary; I need intensity and variety. When it comes to love and sex, the ideal way would be to have several different lovers and pick them depending on my mood. However, I don't feel a need for intimacy; I'm fine with being single.
Thanks in advance, feel free to share your thoughts. I like brainstorming.
The thread is mainly about my heart fix and instinctual stacking, but any feedback on what I could be is appreciated.
As far as I understand, the heart fix is how I deal with my image and shame. I'm not naturally in touch with either: I do pretty much what I want and I hardly ever care how I am seen - and I'm quite shameless as well. Almost always I'm disconnected from that part of me; I don't really "feel" emotions, I tend to process them through the lens of logic (of course, I can be irrational, but this is an exception rather than a rule). Hey, I don't even know what to ask myself in order to determine the heart fix
I'm sure 2 is not my heart fix. At first I dismissed a possibility of having 3 fix, but now I realise there's more Three in me than I previously thought. I'm not sure, though, if it's a matter of 3 fix, 4w3 fix, or just a side effect of mistaking my 7 traits for 3 traits. Moreover, if my tritype was 378, I'd be triple assertive - and I don't think I am.
4 is still a possibility, the most likely one, although I'm undecided between 4w3 and 4w5. I can relate a bit more to 4w5 descriptions, FWIW, but since I'm definitely not a core Four, it's kind of hard to decide. I'm fascinated by Fours, but mostly because their attitude is completely different from mine.
My instincts, then: no doubt the social instinct is my last. At first I thought I'm sp/sx, now I'm considering the possibility of sx/sp. While I need independence like I need air, I can't really relate to wanting comfort, material security, a long-term relationship and /or family (and these appear frequently in various descriptions of self-pres instinct). Quite the contrary; I need intensity and variety. When it comes to love and sex, the ideal way would be to have several different lovers and pick them depending on my mood. However, I don't feel a need for intimacy; I'm fine with being single.
Thanks in advance, feel free to share your thoughts. I like brainstorming.