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This is gonna be quite long,but please...help me!

1) What aspect of your personality made you unsure of your type?
I feel a sense of kindness and gentleness for every person I meet.I feel in an almost compulsive way that I have to be kind and gentle to this person,no matter what.Also,I don't like impersonal reasoning,and I don't want to use it unless strictly necessary.I love being kind and gentle,and I respect tradition.


2) What do you yearn for in life? Why?
I want to understand and experience love,harmony and happiness.Everyone is talking about these things,but I feel like I have to experience these things firsthand,to understand them.The thing I have understood is that they are strictly interconnected.How,is a mystery to me.Anyway,what I want is to experience them.I'm not interested in logically understanding them.I want to experience them as emotions.

3) Think about a time where you felt like you were at your finest. Tell us what made you feel that way.
I remember being connected with a group of friends,without caring if I was right or wrong.I remember being connected,feeling vital for the outcome.I remeber also that in that time,nobody cared if I was right or wrong.They cared only that I was there,and that I was doing something fun with someone else.

4) What makes you feel inferior?
When someone points me that I'm wrong and he starts telling me what why I'm wrong.I tend to feel inferior and attacked by this attitude,especially if he's telling me in a know-it-all way.I feel emotionally attacked,and this makes me feel inferior.

5) What tends to weigh on your decisions? (Do you think about people, pro-cons, how you feel about it, etc.)
I tend to consider both the future outcomes of my decision,and,if regards other people,how they will react to my decision.(This is the hardest point.If I have to organize something,I have to consider how every person will feel of EVERY decision.With enough people,this can be quite draining!)


6) When working on a project what is normally your emphasis? Do you like to have control of the outcome?
I want to get it done,but I'm usually quite flexible about the outcome.Not too much,though.I like to have a control on the outcome,but I don't care if it's not too much equal to what I'd like it to be.

7) Describe us a time where you had a lot of fun. How is your memory of it?
I remember the feeling of the day,and I have a broad memory of it.I don't remember much the details of past events,but I remember perfectly the feelings of the day.

8) When you want to learn something new, what feels more natural for you? (Are you more prone to be hands on, to theorize, to memorize, etc)

It depends from what I'm learning...I like to try to understand everything I learn,but usually I use my intuition to get the data,and my feelings to understand it.In the end,I make closure with my logic(If there's something I didn't understood with my feeling!)

9) How organized do you to think of yourself as?
I'm referred as extremely disorganized,and...I think it quite true.I'm indeed disorganized!

10) How do you judge new ideas? You try to understand the principles behind it to see if they make sense or do you look for information that supports it?
I try to understand the principles behind,then,if they make sense,I look for information that supports it!

11) You find harmony by making sure everyone is doing fine and belonging to a given group or by making sure that you follow what you believe and being yourself?
I like it when everybody is doing fine and is happy with that...About being in a group,yes,I prefer when social rules are respected,and nobody is harming anyone!

12) Are you the kind that thinks before speaking or do you speak before thinking? Do
you prefer one-on-one communication or group discussions?
I like one-on-one discussions.but group discussion are fine too!Anyway,I think a split second before I talk,but I always know what to say and what NOT to say!

13) Do you jump into action right away or do you like to know where are you jumping before leaping? Does action speaks more than words?
Action speaks more than words,indeed!But...I prefer to know where I'm jumping(I don't want to get hurt)

14) It's Saturday. You're at home, and your favorite show is about to start. Your friends call you for a night out. What will you do?
I go for the night out!Who cares of the show,I'm going to have fun outside!

15) How do you act when you're stressed out?
I get really grumpy.Aggressive and sarcastic of everyone.I tend to keep inside a lot too.Negative thoughts racing in my mind.

16) What makes you dislike the personalities of some people?
I dislike stupid people who like to show off their coolness to the world.Ifind these persons absolutely disgusting to me.

17) Is there anything you really like talking about with other people?
I love to talk about deep conversations with other people.Unfortunately,not much people can answer to my questions...the one who do,are usually pretty open minded people.I love to talk of my latest interest too!

18) What kind of things do pay the least attention to in your life
Daily chores,without a doubt.

19) How do your friends perceive you? What is wrong about their perception? ? What would your friends never say about your personality ?
Well...I think they perceive me like a gentle minded person,quite outgoing,and kinda...insane!
I don't think of myself as insane(I can be quite sensate if I want to),but my friend would never say I'm rude,or that I'm a stupid know-it-all!
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20) You got a whole day to do whatever you like. What kind of activities do you feel like doing?

Going to the nearest big city,and experience all the cultural activities(visiting art museums and churches,by the way)I can cram in a day!
 

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We seem kinda similar, i.e knowing exactly what to say in certain situations, being disorganized, liking to spend your saturdays out partying. Wanting whats best for everyone and thinking long and hard about making sure everyone is accounted for and I'm thinking your a male EnxP purely because you float between the t and f like me, you could be and ENTP or ENFP though so I'm pretty sure you have the E,N & P down. So take a look at enfp and entp and see if anything resonates with you. Hope that helps
 

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I know you've just stated that you've decided that you are an ENFP, but I thought I'd post anyway, hope that's okay.

I just wanted to say that I can relate to almost all of what you've written! The only difference is that you sound a lot more extraverted then I do, you sound very much like an ENFP.
 

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I know you've just stated that you've decided that you are an ENFP, but I thought I'd post anyway, hope that's okay.

I just wanted to say that I can relate to almost all of what you've written! The only difference is that you sound a lot more extraverted then I do, you sound very much like an ENFP.
It just popped in my mind...what if I am VERY outgoing INFP?
 

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It just popped in my mind...what if I am VERY outgoing INFP?
I was talking to my INFP colleague today and she said how she loves to stay at home and be cosy and comfortable more than going out socialising. I said to her "And there is the difference between an Extrovert and Introvert because I love going out."
 
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