I never feel entirely comfortable sitting down when there are people who have to stand on the bus, but I figure as a practical matter, there's no particular reason for anyone to sit or stand except that everyone has to fit on the bus. I would want to offer my seat to the elderly or someone who would clearly be better off not on their feet, but I seem to not mind if anyone else stands while I sit whether they are man or woman except for my sense of anxiety about whether or not I really have it right.
I want to be more settled about it and I want to have it right ... any thoughts? What do you do or think about the situation?
This girl on the bus today kept trying to give her seat to some dude who was standing. They were both college students and didn't know each other. I would have liked a report on her thoughts and feelings and motivations, but I guess realistically you've got to figure it out yourself or just ignore it. I don't know, besides maybe a self-esteem issue, is there any good explanation?
I want to be more settled about it and I want to have it right ... any thoughts? What do you do or think about the situation?
This girl on the bus today kept trying to give her seat to some dude who was standing. They were both college students and didn't know each other. I would have liked a report on her thoughts and feelings and motivations, but I guess realistically you've got to figure it out yourself or just ignore it. I don't know, besides maybe a self-esteem issue, is there any good explanation?