I am an INFJ-INFP with the socionics test thingy. I am married happily to an INTJ but have been working on a poly relationship with this ESTP male.-who happens to be my husbands friend..lol... I completely fell in love with him. I've never met anyone like him before...but..I had to dump him the other day..It is very sad I already miss him so much. Just wondering if with this personality type are they more into BDSM the Dominance type stuff? I don't have a problem with that necessarily but he has used this to mask verbal abuse and then calls it being dominant. I know theres jerks in all personality types. Do ESTP's have a big problem with their temper-saying mean things they don't really mean? He normally is very nice to me..but a couple days ago started being really controlling told me to never talk to an xboyfriend of mine ever again that this guy just wanted to f*&& me.. Then when he asked me a question and i didn't answer it the way he wanted he asked me if I was F%^&ing stupid....this isn't normal behavior..but the entire day he attacked me repeatedly....Just trying to figure out why he acted like that...Is it possible he feels threatened by something? Did I do the right thing dumping him?