what i'd gladly add to this is that i think the indecisiveness stems form the fact that decisions are so important (at least for me) - being a judging type, even "going with the flow" has to be decided first!
I take my regrets very hard so I don't like to make mistakes but somtimes wasting that time on indecision is a mistake as well. However, I need that clear conscience. That might one reasonb my relationships struggle and as I am very tentative and questioning when it comes to relationships.
However, if I do believe we do we are very firm and direct in our decisions if it will compromise our values and the perception of us very quickly.