I found myself to be attracted to all kinds of physical types, short, tall, skinny, fat, quasimodo and GQ. Gender and race are not important to me either but I have noticed it is rare for me to be attracted to a woman. Personality and integrity are the most important to me. The size of their paycheque has never influenced me.
Turn ons : confidence, intelligence, sense of humor, humility, emotionally open, non judgmental, honest, understanding, supportive, having a positive outlook, a communicator, kindness, forgiving. They don't have to have all these qualities but I find these traits to be very sexy. I'm sure I've forgotten to mention some.
Turn offs: egocentricity, manipulation, controlling, inflexible, inability to compromise, abusive behavior, too many insecurities, bigots, quick to judge, having an "I am always right" attitude, substance abusers, emotionally closed off.
I don't think I could recognize another ENFP short of asking them straight out or getting them to do the test

I don't know of any ENFPs except for the ones on this site.