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Outside Looking In...

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Greetings All! :happy:

For some time now, I can't really recall how long, I've been feeling kinda strange and I can't seem to pin down the cause. Most days, I feel as if I'm on the outside looking in at my life. I don't really feel like myself..or, at least, I don't feel like the "normal" me I remember from a few years ago. I feel like I'm inside my mind and my body, but it doesn't feel like *me* for some reason. I wish I could think of a more eloquent way to describe the sensation, but words are failing me at the moment. I've been struggling with self-esteem and self-confidence issues for quite a while...maybe years of doubt and negativity directed toward myself have finally snapped something loose inside my mind.

Thought / opinions? Any and all will be greatly appreciated! Thanks in advance
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I'm feeling lost. Although for me, I know the reason. 12 weeks ago my dad died. I am aware that I need to find the old me again and do the things that I used to do, but I struggle to build up the steam to do so. I have ideas in my head of things I want to do, but I need to crank the gears up if I am to achieve those things.

Perhaps something that happened to you hit you harder than you realised at the time? Either way, you need to get out of that complacency and get moving with your life. You won't be happy unless you feel that your life has purpose in it. Think about your goals and dreams and make a list. Then start implementing them.

I plan on moving forward soon.
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