Me and my best friend are INFPs. We both hold strong value systems, but with my friend it seems has gone way overboard with it. He seems to try way too hard to be moral which kind of gets in the way of his friendships with other people and his life in general.(for example, he found out I smoked marijuana one time and threatened me that he was going to talk to the counselor, my parents, and the police) He also has aspbergers, I do not know much about the illness, but I guess it could play a part. He also liked this girl for a long time, and when he found out that she had sex with a guy before and has had alcohol before, he seemed to set out on a "quest" to "save her." He started to tell me he was seeing angels and that they were giving him the mission to cause great good in the world. I tell him that his level of idealism, at least to me, is VERY unhealthy, and like many INFPs got offended and told me to leave his house. When we talk about relationships, he claims that he cannot feel sexual attraction at all because he feels like its immoral to look at a relationship that way, when of course being sexually attracted to someone when you are in a relationship with them is a normal healthy human function, and he seems to not understand that and feels if he does think like that, hes being sick and gross. (I can tell he finds others attractive physically, as with other INFPs I know that claim they dont look at physical attraction in fear they are sounding immoral) I feel like if he keeps this level of idealism up he is going to be going on a ride of a very disappointing life when he realizes there is not much in his power that can change the world for the better. He doesn't have powers that can change that. This has been worrying me lately.
So INFPs, do you know any others that seem to be "overly moral?"
So INFPs, do you know any others that seem to be "overly moral?"