Enfp 7w8 ;p
I think there is truth to what you say, that life can bring up patterns, and it is important to learn from them.Life is meant to teach us things through patterns. Some may or may not agree.
In my life I have noticed very specific patterns that happen over and over again, down to the details. It's kind of eerie seeing things play out this way.
I had a relationship with a man that started over the internet. We met in person. We fell in love. He cut me off. I was/am depressed about it.
I find another man on the internet. We are falling in love. We haven't met in person. He says the same things to me. He doesn't want to be like the last one. He wants to help me, fix me. I want someone to love.
I can see the same scenario happening over again. I just don't want it to end as the last one did.
Do you guys see these types of patterns in your life? Care to share?
But if there's anything life has taught me in my short life its that people are different, not everyone is the same, and sometimes when we say they are all alike its because we don't want to get hurt. That we are afraid of the past, and I understand that, maybe not more than anyone else. But I believed that if this one person left me because I wasn't good enough for them, then everyone else would have no harder of a time. And I was like you or I relate to what you said, feeling like you could see it all happening again. So I distanced myself, I kept as far away from people as I could, and I ended up worse than before. And finally when people came back into my life, people I barely knew but wanted to know me. I realized that not everyone is the same, but if you act like they are some people meant to be important in your life will disappear. Life is a risk, it might hurt but sometimes you have to take it, or you'll kick yourself for standing stagnate. I know it doesn't seem like it, but the pain and the hurt can help, it really can. It helps you not to make the same mistakes. And once you've learned from them, you keep the message, the warning signs, and you continue forward. Never forgetting the past completely, but letting it stay just there is the past