So here's the deal. I've been talking with this girl on and off for, far too long. (3 years if you must know) We are getting really close and I think it's time for me to ask her out. That said, I get tongue tied very easily, and writing a letter to a girl has blown up in face several times, so I want to try a new method. Next time I hang out at her place I want to play piano and sing "Fly Me to the Moon" to her and include the question somewhere near the end of the song. Do you think this is a little too heavy handed, or is this cute? I don't want to do anything that could scare her away, but I also want to ask her out in a way that isn't uncomfortable or on the other hand to distant. Any advice? What do you think? Thanks everyone, I appreciate whatever help you can give me.