So I'm an ENTP 6, but very phobic and have a heavy 9 fix. It still drives me insane when I lose an argument, but am a lot less abrasive when arguing than the average ENTP. Many times I'll even back down from confrontation to avoid fighting. Do the rest of you phobic ENTP 6's do this? Plus, a lot of times, I will back down from an argument because I question whether I am right and don't have the confidence in myself that I will win the argument.