[bigstupidgrin]

No judgment at all: why is this pleasurable?

 

[atamagasuita]

Not really pleasurable for me but fucking frustrating. XD

I'm not good at this actually.. But I've done several phone sex in the past, I'm just doing it for entertainment but i cannot just get fucking turn on. Lol

Basically i was just all turning the guys..

I'm such a fucking giver..

Or maybe it's just fun for me moaning and stuff lololololsss

There's one time i make a mouth sound of fingering. Wahahaha

It's like I'm not fingering and then the guy said, i wanna hear you finger

I made a sound of fingering through my mouth hahahahahahha

 

[Cthulhu And Coffee]

I don't like phone sex unless it's a precursor of real sex. Same with cybering. Without there being actual sex some point after, it's all just teasing in my mind.

That said, I like phone sex because of the anticipation it creates, and also sometimes because it helps remind me in detail of the real sex I might have had with the person some point beforehand.

 

[Zeta Neprok]

I guess it's good if you are really lonely and can't have any real sex. It's probably better than nothing I guess.

 

[Meliodas]

No judgment at all: why is this pleasurable?

Well it's not as satisfying as body contact, but it's quick, convenient and accessible. Phone sex done well may also accelerate the move towards physical sex.

As for the pleasure, well as I see it, you receive a lot of mental stimulation from having to imagine all the emotions and desires the girl on the other end is experiencing. The positive erotic affirmations you get as a result ramp up the intensity of it too.

Phone sex is definitely more of an iNtutive thing. Much as ENTPs are the masters of sexting, I think ENFJs are the masters of phone sex, because they can tap into the other person's emotional state by using information from their voice.