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Photos of a "Dream Partner" - Ideal, not real! Actors, Musicians, Idols, Etc.

- Post photos of people you find impossibly attractive. This must be a fantasy and not someone you know personally.

- Explanations are optional. Anything from "I'm into tall blonds" to "I love this person's native culture" to "s/he reminds me of my ex" to "This person's eyes look intense." No reason is too shallow, too complex, too kinky or too weird. It's a fantasy after all.

- Multiple photos are encouraged to depict your "type." Multiple posts are welcome too. Any photo that excites you for any reason at any time, feel free to post it. :D

- Questions and commentary about other posts is welcome.

- Post your current assessment of your type, tritype, variants and JCF, if it is not labeled.

I am curious if there will be patterns among types. Perhaps it's a ridiculous notion. I am also curious about the romantic fantasies of others. And I want to look at beautiful people, but not the same ones I always gawk at on google search. ;P
 

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^ Perfection all around. I love everything about how he looks, but I melt for the sad dreamy eyes most of all. I'm also particularly fond of Native American culture and the markings on his body make my gears turn.. I want to know more. His skin tone is utter perfection. He's in good shape, but not rock hard; still has some softness to make him huggable. Basically perfect, as far as a physical ideal is concerned.




^ Dead sexy. He looks bold and intense and ready for anything. I love the hairstyle too. Generally I love strong men with wild long hair who aren't afraid to style it. I'd prefer no facial hair, however. I also love angular cheekbones, square jaws and bow-shaped lips on men. There's a sense of power with the chiseled features, but softness with the big lips.



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Photos of a "Dream Partner" - Ideal, not real! Actors, Musicians, Idols, Etc.

Enneagram - 7w6
Instinct- sx
Tri-type- 7w6 9w8 4w5


He just looks so captivating and love all the character he plays


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(note I'm only attracted to Katheryn Winnick as Lagertha
 

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So it's more about what looks you find ideal? Not that I don't care about looks but hm, hard to think of many real people I find attractive.

This could be an interesting thread though, even if I'll probably be too embarrassed to post. Like the first guy you posted, while not bad looking, is not my "type" but the way you explain your attraction I can see how that can be appealing even if it's not my kind of fantasy.

Also @lycanized posted Fiona Apple it seems, whom I find fairly captivating, but more in a "I kinda wish I looked like that"-way. >_>
 

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So it's more about what looks you find ideal?
No. My ideals aren't about looks, though looks can be symbols of it. For instance sad eyes, fitness body, markings, clothing choices, intensity in the eyes. I don't care about raw features on their own when it comes to ideals. But, this thread is about, when idealizing and fantasizing, who "does it for you?" Which actor or gorgeous person do you see and say "I want my character in my novel to look like him because he's hot." Or "Mmm if i were single.."

What we idealize beyond looks is a far deeper thing for another thread, but looks preferences can still signify something about us, so thats what this thread is for.
 

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Okay, I kind of figured that, but the thread is asking for photos, so. And my SO thought it seemed more focused on eyecandy so I figured I might as well ask.

Anyway, this character (Will Graham from Hannibal) hasn't actually inspired any sexual fantasies, and I haven't even seen the show so not too invested in the character (which makes it less embarrassing to post maybe), but the gifs I've seen off him are pretty captivating (his face and those... mannerisms, basically. So that's one example I can post at least. >_>

 










(Hm, this might also make me look like a sadist or something. OH WELL.)
 

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For me, even if I'm attracted to someone physically who I don't really know(and I suppose even if I do know them), there's a fantasy going on about how they might be. Certain things turn me off completely, certain things add to the fantasy or give my imagination fodder, tell me there's something there. So it is physical, but there's also an emotional aspect there. Of course I wouldn't know how everyone is
 
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INFP, 4w5 (I can't remember the rest) so/ ??

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I've always had a thing for clean-cut or men whom have been considered to be ''androgynus''.
 
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I am most likely an INFP, Fi-dom, who also relate a lot to the Ni-function. I am a 4 with a 5 wing. My tritype is most likely 458, as I relate to this one on a deep emotional level.

I love large eyes, pale skin. People who look unhealthy. I think I am attracted to a lot of 4s, 5s and 8s. I especially attract people who can be aggressive or so emotional it turns unhealthy.

I also am attracted to my boyfriend and the love of my life, who is Indian. He has pale skin and huge, dark eyes. He is a 9w8.

My favourite persons in this world is him, and also Sigourney Weaver, Sweeney Todd, Mia Wasikowska, Ellen Ripley (Sigourney Weaver), Winona Ryder, Jake Gyllenhaal, Severus Snape (in the books) and Neo from The Matrix.

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For me, even if I'm attracted to someone physically who I don't really know(and I suppose even if I do know them), there's a fantasy going on about how they might be. Certain things turn me off completely, certain things add to the fantasy or give my imagination fodder, tell me there's something there. So it is physical, but there's also an emotional aspect there. Of course I wouldn't know how everyone is
I'm exactly the same way. If you notice my explanation about the two guys I posted..it's pretty much that. :)
 

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The character, not the actor.
 

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