I've not been able to figure this out with my INFP wife. I've tried two approaches and don't like either one:I'm currently planning a move to university with my INFP boyfriend. The ease with which he procrastinates drives me crazy sometimes! :bored: How do you guys deal with having to plan big things with P types?
I am definitely aware that he's not being deliberately difficult or anything. It's his way of dealing with things, just like mine is to plan. It just seems to inefficient to me... but thanks for reminding me to keep this in mind.I am 100% confident that my P does not procrastinate or forget out of any lack of desire to help or any intentional maliciousness.
Yeah, I'm not thrilled with either option, either. I'm finding that I prefer the former in our circumstance, but it's still hard because he hasn't got his budget etc sorted out for me to take into account in my planning!I've not been able to figure this out with my INFP wife. I've tried two approaches and don't like either one:
1. Do all the planning myself - stresses me out and doesn't fit with her sense of "flow"
2. Have her plan some of the significant pieces at least - but when she's the planner, cascades of things inevitably go wrong due to lack of what I consider basic planning skills, and then I end up getting sucked into a state of stress and being rushed that really isn't good for me.
We've moved way too many times in our relatively short marriage and it's been bad each time.
All I can say is - take care of yourself! And sorry that I have no solutions.