I have knew him for a long time before we got married. We haven't been married for long. One night he is making a romantic candle dinner for me in apology for not spending enough time with me. The next day he doesn't understand why I want to spend more time with him. If i talk about anything negative, about myself or him he shuts down, pushes me away, and wont talk anymore. I want to get through issues, but he refuses to allow that they even exist. He says my emotions aren't logical, but can give no explanation for his own. He will just say "I am frustrated" but he wont know the reason why. He is okay getting angry and annoyed when he doesn't understand my emotions, but he thinks I shouldn't be upset when I don't understand his. Someone please tell me what is going on! Is he already tired of married life, or is his idea of marriage more of just living with someone? He was a lot more open about his feelings before we were married.